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"No amount of self improvement will make up for a lack of self acceptance." Robert Holden

How true this quote is. We can work on improving ourselves as long as we want and attend all the personal development seminars that are out there, however if we do not accept ourselves for who we are, no amount of personal growth will be able to bring us the joy, fulfillment, and success that we are seeking.

Unless we learn to feel worthy and deserving of the best life has to offer it cannot come to us - we will subconsciously sabotage ourselves. We need to let go of fears, self doubt and self criticism. It is also important to learn to relax and enjoy life.

Personal development is available to help us shed limiting beliefs and maximize our potential. However, it is crucial to understand that you are not flawed and broken. Each one of us is whole and complete as we are... we have simply forgotten that.

Perhaps it was our upbringing and our cultural beliefs, perhaps it was our lack of success (as defined by ourself) along the way or perhaps we had a rough start in life and we were led to believe that we were somehow flawed. Know that you are not flawed.

You may have made decisions in the past that were not right for you and now you are seeing the results. The circumstances you are currently experiencing are simply a result of past thoughts and behaviours. However, your past does not need to equal your future. You can choose differently - right now! Simply take responsibility for your decisions and actions.

The first decision being the decision to accept yourself as you are!

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

Everyone has a voice that needs to be discovered. Have you discovered yours yet?

In my travels, I was once again reminded that we each have a voice and a unique message to deliver to the world. We each have a story that someone else is waiting to hear - that only we can say in our own unique way. Now your message may be delivered in a variety of ways - art, music, a song you sing, a book, an article, a blog, a speech, a sport you play, and so on.

I know some of you are thinking - I have no message. No one would want to hear or see what I have to express, or better yet my message is not that important. Wrong!

You have a greatness within you - don't let yourself be stopped by your limited thinking. However in order to become more, you need to see yourself as more. You need to understand and wrap your head around the fact that there is more in you than you can ever imagine.

Actually the great folks we hear about, who achieve in every field are not the exception, but rather they are the example. You have greatness in you - it may just be dormant at the moment.

You do not have to be great to start, but you need to start to be great.

The problem is not that we aim too high and miss - the problem is that we aim too low and hit. You actually owe it to the world to discover your voice, and share your message. How you will choose to express your voice is completely up to you.

Personally I have made the commitment to discover my voice at a deeper level - to be a messenger of hope, to help stop the negative thoughts others may have about themselves. My message is all about promoting the human potential. And I know that I am far from having reached my potential - but I am most certainly on my way!

Have you been suffering from possibility blindness?

The only thing that counts is what is happening within you. We all need to be reminded to stop making ourselves a prisoner of ]our own thoughts and words.

What leadership, which talents and gifts will die with you if you do not discover and express your voice?

Greatness is within you. Greatness is a choice. Choose today who you will serve.

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Imagine the possibilities...

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

http://www.inspiredprosperity.com

I just finished listening to Ellie Drake’s interview with Siedah Garrett – singer, songwriter and so much more…and wanted to share my thoughts.

The word Balance certainly caught my ear when Siedah was speaking – as it is something so many of us look to achieve in different areas of life -- within and outside of ourselves. Siedah has managed to find a balance in her musical career in order to keep herself inspired and grounded - something that is important to remember.

“Refuse to complain about something we can change.” Siedah being a doer sets a great example of taking on responsibility, taking action Now vs later - one more nudge to encourage us forward.

Later in the interview a significant observation is brought forth by Siedah who reminds us of what we can expect when transitioning from one type of career to another ... You will certainly want to hear this for yourself as you are learning to pursue your passion.

There is an enormous amount of value given to us with each interview. Each dialogue is a wonderful gift from Ellie, and personally I look forward to learning and growing with each conversation.

I suggest that we all make time to treat ourselves, and listen to each refreshing conversation.

And with that said, I wish you a productive day!

Lynette
Manifesting Formula

I have come to realize that successful people see failures - disappointments in a positive light, and believe they have what it takes to get over it. They choose to look for the lesson learned, and what value they can take from their setback, rather than focusing on the failure.

If you are a sports fan, you may have actually witnessed the loss of a tournament, a series or a particular game, and seen fans who appeared more upset than the athletes. That is because the athlete knows he or she can, and will get over it. Before long, they are focusing on the next event. Whereas the devoted sports fan gets very discouraged, and frequently takes the loss harder. If you do not believe me go to a teenager's hockey or ball game, and observe the parents.

The difference between successful people and those who are not, is frequently due to the perceptions that they hold. People who experience setbacks or what they refer to as failures frequently take the setback personally. They believe it defines them. They let it lower their self confidence and self esteem. However successful people will share with you that the reason they succeed more is because they have usually failed more times. They are simply more persistent.

Next time you experience a setback try re-framing the concept of failure in your mind, as simply one of a temporary setback or temporary defeat. Many of life's failures are simply folks who did not realize how close they were to success whey they gave up.

You may want to redefine the term success. Success is not only the end result. Start giving yourself credit for all the steps you are taking along the way. Praise your attempts and the learning you are doing. The learning if applied holds great value!

Setbacks are a natural part of the process in any new endeavor. You will attempt many things in your new venture. Some will work, some will need tweaking, and some will need to be ditched. If you are not willing to make errors and move to higher levels of achievement, then you are really not ready to learn and to grow.

With the rate of change accelerating continuously, it is essential to committing to being a life-long learner. When you embrace the process of learning, growing and becoming more, life takes on a richly rewarding and satisfying quality. Fulfillment is possible.

You hold the power in your mind. Let go of what others may think! Choose to redefine Success and "Failure".

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

Good day BraveHeart Women!

This week as we approach the day of Love - Valentine's day - we may want to keep in mind that in order to love others and bring about lasting change in our own life - we need to love ourselves and accept ourselves first.

Honoring and loving ourselves includes forgiving ourselves for our past errors and choices. This is not easy.. yet, I am learning that self forgiveness is very necessary in order to move forward and not be weighed down by unnecessary baggage.

We are constantly growing and evolving and part of self-love is choosing to access our power within. We can facilitate accessing our power by doing things that help us personally grow and transform - things that will also allow us to have our inner cup filled.

Do you make time to honor yourself, and in which way to you choose to do so?

Create a peaceful and joyful day for yourself,

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

Today, I treated myself well by listening to the dialogue between Ellie and Dr. Maya Angelou - that was a gift of self-love and a tool for personal growth.

The precious gems shared were numerous and worth every moment of my precious time spent.

I loved her definition of a woman - someone who takes responsibility for the time she takes and the space she occupies.

The sharing of how she was liberated by her mother... and her story of unconditional love was touching.

And then Dr. Angelou spoke of Courage as one of the most important virtues a woman can have. "Not angry, not impatient with the work you do – just hope and pray to be better - don’t need to be held tight to anybody else opinions."

The words "Give yourself the authority to be comfortable in your own skin." in my mind, are words we should always keep by our side and teach to our young daughters, nieces, sisters...

Maya's sharing on forgiveness was enough to send a shiver down one's spine - Forgiveness of self – forgiveness of the offender –

"Have to know that people only do what they know how to do. I can be changed by events that have happened to me but I refuse to be reduced."

There is so much more ... and I certainly cannot do it justice in a blog. I urge you to give yourself a wonderful gift of self-love by taking the time to listen and savor the words and wisdom of these two phenomenal women - Dr.Maya Angelou and Ellie Drake.

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

Good morning BraveHeart Women!

We have a couple of days left before Valentine's day and of course we will want to mark the day in a special way for our loved ones...

However, this week is really about honoring and celebrating YOU, your heart, and your dreams...

Because as you Celebrate You, you will be consciously and subconsciously giving others permission to Celebrate themselves...Now that's powerful and can be truly magical.

Care to share how you celebrate yourself?

"I believe in You. To your heart, your dream, and the difference you make."

May you feel Joy and Happiness! And here is something fun to know
How Valentine's Day Started!

Valentine's Day
By Peter Comrie

Every February 14th, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. But who is this mysterious saint and why do we celebrate this holiday?

We've found 2 different legends ... Enjoy!

The first legend, and perhaps the best known, began in Rome, when the Emperor, Claudius II, was involved in many bloody and unpopular campaigns. "Claudius the Cruel" as he was called, was having a difficult time getting soldiers to join his military leagues. He believed that the reason was that Roman men did not want to leave their loves or families. So, he cancelled all marriages and engagements in Rome!

The good Saint Valentine, who was a priest in Rome, in the year 269 A.D., together with his friend Saint Marius, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret.When Valentine's actions were discovered, he was sentenced to be beaten to death with clubs and to have his head cut off. But while in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl, who may have been his jailor's daughter, who visited him during his confinement. Before his death on the 14th day of February, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed

" From your Valentine"

In 496 A.D., Pope Gelasius set aside February 14 to honor St. Valentine.

Another legend says that Valentine's Day started ...in ancient Rome, on February 14th, a holiday to honor Juno. Juno was the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. The Romans also knew her as the Goddess of women and marriage. Then, the following day, February 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalia. In those days, the lives of young boys and girls were strictly separate.

However, on the eve of the festival of Lupercalia, the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man would draw a girl's name from the jar and would then be partners for the duration of the festival with the girl whom he chose. Sometimes the pairing of the children lasted an entire year, and often, they would fall in love and would later marry.

In the United States, Miss Esther Howland is given credit for sending the first valentine cards. Commercial valentines were introduced in the 1800's and now ... well .. you know the rest....

Grand, yes


Lynette
Manifesting Formula

http://www.thepowerisinyourhands.com

Is it possible to have yet another incredible interview at our fingertips???

This afternoon, I was stopped in my tracks and riveted to my computer screen, listening intently, and hanging on to each of Dr. Judith’s words.

Actually, I almost missed my coaching call… I was that caught up with the wisdom shared.

This time, Emotional Freedom is the topic of conversation between Ellie and her guest Dr. Judith Orloff.

When I was listening to the spoken words – there was something resonating loudly at my core. It was like having some kind of tribal feeling in my gut – if that makes sense?

The depth and the profoundness emanating from this dialogue and from these wonderful women - the heightened self - awareness and increased level of understanding to be gained by having this kind of knowledge – the implications and the possibilities that can unfold from women taking a hold of this information, leaves me in a state of awe.

“The feminine energy is frightening for the world because it is such a large and radiating type of energy, yet this energy is a joining and uniting type of power ,”- was one of the many key points made by Dr. Judith.

“Connecting with the Self - which is our individual source of incredible power – is something we all need to do. We need to tap into this power. Though it might feel uncomfortable at first to do so, it will be so very liberating.” Dr. Judith

And she goes on.. “The female intuitive energy is receptive, open and it’s about tuning in - waiting for knowledge to come to her. Women need to learn how to deal with the past, make a conscious choice to leave that past behind them, let go of what other people think. As women, we need to blend both our feminine and masculine energies and be sensitive to others needs. “

Come to think of it , you need to stop reading and go straight to the interview.

But don't forget to come back and share with us what resonated with you in this interview.

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

Hello everyone,

Yesterday being Valentine’s Day... More than likely many promises were heard and many “I love you” said.

Some ladies are feeling like they had an ideal day because they spent it with someone who is caring and attentive.

On the other hand, many may not have had such a great day. They will have been reminded that their soul mate has not yet been found and they chose to focus on that.

These gals may have let their mind have a party at their expense - the negative mind chatter went on all day and may still be going on.

Others chose to feel disappointed because their present partner isn't fulfilling their expectations.

Yet, all these individuals could have had a much better day if they were conscious that it not so much what happens or does not happen to us, but rather how we choose to react to what is happening.

Accepting what currently is rather than resisting it makes life so much easier. What we resist persists.

Whatever is happening for you today, may I suggest that you choose to embrace it, accept it and love it. More importantly, embrace and love yourself as you are.

"Personal High Self Worth is Necessary Before One Can
Enter a healthy Friendship or Relationship."

Make today a day of giving yourself some self-love by doing something good for yourself that will leave you feeling empowered.

To your brave heart ...

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

"If you do not know what you stand for, you will fall for everything."

Which vision is guiding you on a daily basis? A few blogs ago, I shared the importance of being the captain of your ship. And every captain must have a vision, a destination she is moving towards.

It's not enough to be busy, so are the ants. The question is, what are we busy about? - Henry Thoreau

A big part of life is simply showing up, showing up ready to be, do and have what you want. However, you must know what you truly desire.

If you haven't already crafted a vision for yourself, take the time to write out, draw, or even sing what you would like your life to look like in the next 90 days,180 days, the next year and so on.

In doesn't have to be perfect... just get started. Decide what you want to move towards. A powerful vision will help pull you forward and keep you internally motivated to do what needs to be done, in order to achieve your intentions, goals, and desires.

I found when I had no vision, human nature being what it is... I found myself staying in my comfort zone and not moving forward.

Later, I was reminded that when the captain is guiding the ship, even though she cannot see the destination for most of the journey, she can however visualize it, feel it, and sense the arrival. It does not matter that she does not yet see the destination, because she has a quiet, confident knowing, that if she keeps going forward she will get there.The captain of the ship knows who she is and the role she plays in her vision.

Just like the captain you must know who you are and what is the role that you are playing in your life.

I for one know that I am someone with a message and a method - a message that each one of us has incredible potential, talents, and gifts, - more potential than we are even aware of... and a method to develop that potential, and achieve one's desired level of freedom, satisfaction, fulfillment and joy.

If you forget who you are as you go through your life or choose not to connect with your inner self - you will end up losing sight of your vision during the storms.

Know that you have everything you need within to move without with your vision. See yourself in relationship with your vision - and know that you will continuously adjust it as you achieve mini intentions along the way.

What would you dare to start if you knew you could not fail?

Have fun and enjoy developing your vision.

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

I hope your week is going well and that you have been able to take a few minutes for yourself despite the busyness of work...

Meditation - why bother or better yet do you need to bother?

What I can share from personal experience is that meditation is worth taking the time to do, and to learn to do in a way that fits for you. I have to admit I did not always feel like this, as I had experienced difficulty in stopping the thoughts from gushing forth.

However, with a little time and some patience, I discovered much to my delight, the benefits of quieting the mind. Here is what you can gain from such a practice:

- develop a sense of peace
- eliminate fatigue
- find clarity of purpose
- reduce stress
- reduce pain

but more importantly it offers you the opportunity to have a direct connection with your Higher source, Spirit, Higher consciousness, God, (use the term that fits for you).

Don't let anyone tell you that there is only one way to quiet the mind. There is no right or wrong way to meditate. Learn to Be You Own Wizard. You can start with a few minutes and expand from there. As always, you can Google the topic and you'll find incredible resources.

Like Nike says ... Just do it!

Lynette Chartier

Relaxed confidence - when it comes to developing this state of being ourselves, we may want to spend some time observing kids. Look at how they try, and do different things. They are generally feeling confident and open to doing. They simply want to explore, and have fun!

Yes, children fall down and scrape their knees, but more often than not they get right back up, and go at it again. Unless, an adult comes rushing by their side (of course the adult is well meaning), and with their language and actions imply that the child might hurt her/himself. Each time, that situation repeats itself, the kid then becomes more anxious, and worried that she/he may actually harm themselves - physically or otherwise, and starts to doubt him/herself.

The more attention we give to failures, the more nervous and anxious we will become.

So then the question I have is: When it comes to bringing change into my life, am I going about it in a relaxed confident manner, or am I in fact responding to old programming that no longer serves me?

Tip: To help us come from a place of relaxed confidence, when we are not there... we can try the following. Think of something that you are really good at... something that you do with ease, that others look up to you for. Is it your ability to put a great meal together? Is it your ability to play ball?

Whatever the skill, review that situation in your mind, and bring that feeling, that confidence into your new task. Visualize and feel yourself doing the new thing in such a confident manner. Remember your brain does not know the difference between something that is real and something that is imagined. Therefore by bringing into your mind a situation where you are confident, you are in fact retraining your brain to your own advantage.

We can all learn to Be Our Own Wizard.

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

How often have I written a to do list to make sure I don't forget the important stuff and to help me be focused... too many times to even attempt to count.

Today, I thought maybe I should make up a Not To Do List - as that is just as important as what I do choose to do. Every time I say yes to something unimportant that means I have less time for the real important things in my life - it means I am saying no to what could better serve me.

So my question to myself today is "How can I create more space in my day, so that I can allow the time I desire, to flow into my life so that I may do more of what I am passionate about and that will eventually bring me more of my desired results?"

If I apply the 80/20 rule - 80% of my time should be focused on the 20% that is most significant.

Therefore that means it is time once again to eliminate any physical, mental, emotional clutter that has accumulated in the last while and that is taking up space, time and energy that would be best devoted elsewhere.

Would you like to share your favorite decluttering tip?

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

Hello everyone,

As I am enjoying exploring the possibilities this forum offers, I realized that sometimes I forget to check the "My messages" tab that is found under the "My content" tab.

I would encourage everyone to check their message tab on a daily basis, as this is where you will find welcome notes and invites from other women. And at times you will find just some really cool personal notes ...

So once again, do make a point of checking your messages.

Happy exploring of the site,

Lynette Chartier
Manifesting Formula

Hope this finds you feeling relaxed and enjoying some time just for you.

The thought for today....Are you walking on eggshells- consciously or maybe even sub-consciously - because of someone or something that is making you feel uncomfortable, in some area of your life?

Eggshell Test:

Are you walking around with your shoulders continuously tensed right up, beside a certain person or in a particular situation?

Do you simply agree with whomever is speaking because your somewhat afraid of how they might react to your thoughts, feelings and opinions?

Do you avoid certain issues or topics of conversation with that particular individual or group - frequently this is someone who is important in your life?

Do you find yourself giving in to the other person's needs and neglecting your own?

Do you go as far as "protecting" the other person?

If you find yourself saying yes to these questions - you might want to take a deeper look.

What could be causing this? And more importantly how can you stop this?

On the other hand are you perhaps the one who is causing someone else to walk on eggshells - making them uncomfortable? Ouch!

Learn to Be Your Own Wizard!

Lynette
Manifesting Formula