tinadezsi's Blog: women in sales

I am so excited!!! The book has arrived, The Power of Women United is here... after 4 years of dreaming, 1 year of hard work, throw in a few mishaps, alot of sleepless nights, learning new techniques and BAM...... you have it a beautiful, enlightening, entertaining and most of all empowering book for all the women of the world to enjoy!

I believe with all my heart that this is a book for women to read and read again and then share with their friends, daughters, co-workers and more... This book will start book discussions like never before...every single chapter is an entity all on its own and it teaches the reader the steps in making her dreams come true....

Following the steps will assist the reader to take fewer steps then the writers as she learns from their lessons - if her heart is really open and ready to recieve the lessons within the pages of this book will yell to her as she embraces her own vision for her future!

Indeed I am thrilled to be the conduit in bringing this unique masterpiece to the women of the world. Grab on ladies, start your brand new journey and let the Power of Women United be your guide!
Make today a POWErful Day!
t

BraveHeart ladies!!!!!

Wow... I am not sure what else I can say except I am so blessed to have found this network... I am not sure how to use it really however I am learning and hoping to get even deeper into this network...

I am so excited with the support you have shown me with my new book The Power of Women United.

It has been a massive process and a journey that I will share with you in hopes that the book inside of you can become published too!

Inside each one of us there is a story, one that deserves to be shared.... one that will absolutely touch someone and more often then not - alot of people... there is nothing like the written word to motivate us to live our desires...

I would love to share with you how you too can publish your story and share it with the world.. After working on this lovely work of art I am absolutely determined to help more women become published by creating a publishing house through my business.

We sought out 20 extra-ordinary women who we know have lived their lives on their own terms and forged ahead under their own rules. I have learned so much from these women and am now looking for my next 20 to come together in the next book in 2010!!!

I hope you will take a peak at my book and find it a great resource and if anyone is interested in sharing their story and becoming a published author please let me know...... I would love to hear from you...

I am in the process of my second book already - let me share the title with you "You dont have to eat green beans anymore, YOU are a grown up now!"

Ask me what it means????
thanks so much again for your support

There is a POWER in women uniting! I am blessed to feel it every day as I lead the organization The Power of Women Exchange and get to meet fabulous women that are making their mark weekly.

Along the way, the focus must remain strong in helping women who are truly there to help others and yes, themselves. Focus can not be swayed to those that are there to take without any thought of reciprocation.

I must admit that I have been distracted by the wolf in sheeps clothing and because of what I have been blessed to learn along the way I can deal with these issues as they arise in a different manner then before. Today I have one to deal with.

What strikes me as I started to get upset is that people act from their own place of knowing and thinking they are right and it is not about me at all... they may lash out or try and take something from you that is not theirs however it is their doing and we all know that the circle of Karma is not ours to complete....

As I go about this day, I will ask the highter power I believe in to show them their way and guide them to do the right thing. I will continue to lead my way with light and power knowing that goodness and rightness will prevail.

Make today a POWErful Day.
Tina Dezsi
www.powe.ca

For many today is a religious day. For others its their day off. Whatever today means to you - take the time to relax and enjoy your blessings. Find the joy and positivity in your world and don't let pettiness stand in your way of true happiness.

Today is the day to change your mindset and change the footsteps in your journey to one of more peace and joy!

Whatever your worries - be in the NOW. Ask yourself "at this moment right now, am I ok, is there really anything to worry about???" If you are honest there is nothing to worry about RIGHT AT THIS MOMENT.

Stay still, close your eyes take a few deep breaths and allow the worries, anxieties and "pure stuff" that clutters your mind to leave.... allow it to flow out and give it up to a higher power to take care of. Today, is the day you take back your life and start a brand new journey - one of calmness.

So, go ahead and enjoy this moment of peace and be with yourself and your family and count your blessings.

Live Loudly!

Tina
www.powe.ca

In the last few days I have been asked this more than once. My reaction was the same - why wouldnt you want to share your gifts and inspirations with others.

I believe we are blessed with gifts and we are obligated to share those with others. Now it is said that do what you love and you will create abundance in your life - good fortune follows success. Truth is not everyone loves to write but those that love what they do - do it because they are good at and others may not be. So my question is why not share it, market it through blogging and allow the world to know you are an expert at that particular thing?

Blogging gives us a chance to market to the big wide world by sharing those talents. Do you need to be a professional writer - absolutely not... you need to be able to share a message...

My advice to those who may not see the use or maybe feel they have nothing to share - just try it for a month faithfully and see what happens.

Check out other blogs that interest you - you will be surprised what you learn... comment and give thanks to those who are sharing their gifts with you.

The face of networking is changing and blogging is a big part of it!

Live Loudly Today!
t

Do you know who you really are? I know that most people will answer that question with a resounding YES!

Up until recently I would have also answered YES and I would have added a scrunched up face and let my ego get in there and talk to me in my head saying things like, you know who you are, you are this and that.... labels labels labels...

I stopped and thought about this when I read "the Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. Being in the moment and stopping myself from worrying about things that may never happen in the future (of course, by me worrying forward would certainly make those fears a reality) I also stopped to quiet the mind chatter while I linked into my authentic self.

What I found was more profound to my life and creating peace then I could have imagined. I learned to let go of others choices and I am not responsible for others happiness and success.

I have a gift of inspiring people to be their best, to see their gifts they already have, I am intuitive with people and realize what their blocks are - I have a gift of hearing the issue and offering viable solutions however it is up to them to take it or not... I am no longer responsible for anyone else's results from how my staff feels about changes I make in my business to how someone reacts to my message.

I believe if you radiate from a place of peace and sharing your gift freely you will touch those that are ready and require your information.. Let go of the other side of things that make you wonder - why don't they get it, why do those that I shared with continue to do things the same old way.

It's not about you! It's about them! Do what you do best, share your gifts freely and you will be a success with what your authentic self needs and be at peace with it!

Live Loudly!
Tina Dezsi, Author of The Power of Women United
get your copy now at www.powe.ca

February 13th was a particularly difficult day for me as my best friend moved 3000 miles away to start a new life with her love whom she found again after a 20 period where they both went on and had lives.

Now I knew for a year that this was a possibility but when it really happens, a piece of you wants to stop it - yes she is over the moon happy and you want that, but...... if there is a chance maybe you could talk her out of it.... DIDN'T HAPPEN SHE WENT ANYWAY!

On that day, as I sat in my office crying my eyes out... it was my mother who talked me into just buying a ticket and going, so I did, I bought a ticket for 2 months later on her birthday as a surprise... and here I am right now...

The thing is - she is not happy - she is terrible turmoil, trying to find a place for herself and her and her beau well.... arguing all the time.

She feels guilty about everyone, the family she left behind, the friends who constantly dig and tell her to come home, the love of her life having huge adjustment problems, his 17 year old daughter, her own grown kids back in Ontario, her ex husband who just got back from Afganastan as a mechanic on the army base and herself giving up her business and coming here.

As we were talking it hit me like a ton of bricks that we are only responsible for how we feel and not for others, We can not possibly think ourselve the center of everyone elses universe and that we have the power to fix everything for everyone.

A choice is made for yourself -good, bad or ugly, you did it... and you feel it was the best one at the moment, you accept responsibility for your choices, pick up your socks and get on with it. However the trouble starts when you feel guilty about how someone else is going to react to your choice!

I asked her a question that set things into a different perspective for her " Don't you think it very arrogant of you to think that you are soley reponsible for everyone's feelings, thoughts and happiness?"

She was actually quiet as she pondered this and sat up to face me (uh oh) and said " wow, you are so right." A huge burden had just been lifted from her shoulders. She felt free again, free to be herself.

Others, yes she or you would never intentially hurt anyone however our own feelings, thoughts and choices are not up for discussion to be chosen by others....

So I ask you " Whose feelings are you TRULY responsible for?"

Live Loudly!
Tina Dezsi, Author The Power of Women United
www.powe.ca

How many times have you thought about - the noise the neighbours kids are making, the cat hair left behind on your furniture, the bills in your mailbox or the junk mail in your email box?

We all have these fleeting thoughts that pop into our minds while we are focusing on other things unconciously. They take up valuable space that could be used for appreciating all the blessings we have instead.

When we conciously take note of these fleeting thoughts and choose to elimiate them by replacing them with appreciation instead we live in a place of abundance.

We have the ability to choose appreciation over negative thoughts and actions. Being cognicant of our thoughts allows us to live in a positive place of abundance.

Accepting appreciation of the little things in our lives opens us up to more abundance then we could wish for!

A positive peaceful life can be ours, we choose it! Be aware of all those space taking thoughts that have no place in our lives! Let go of the petty insignificant thoughts and choose appreciation today!

Live Loudly today!
Tina
www.powe.ca
www.powerofwomenunited.com
www.vividlife.me