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Hello Tina, I'm Joan. I read your post today and can relate to your story. I married my husband when I was 19 years old. We had 3 children together but there was no love or respect for either one of us. Those things were removed after a few weeks of married "bliss." He was a deciever, liar, cheat and needless to say narcissist. I know this sounds like a woman scorned, but it is the real truth. After 40 years he wanted to get back with his high school "one true love" (he wanted that 20 years before), but this time she played her cards differently. She told him that she never stopped loving him, that's all he needed and away he went. They were together for 5 days and that's the end of them. Now he's "in love again" with someone else. We were separated for 2 years and in that time he had several "loves". Anyway, I lost my health insurance because of the divorce and I am house sitting for friends until it sells, then I don't know what I'll do. My ex planned this whole 'trip' and wanted to RV and sold everything we had. Therefore, when I turn 65 in a year and a half, I won't recieve spousal support and I'll live on $1000.00 a month. I worry about my future but I'll somehow make it. I have met a nice guy, but, he has a lot of problems, health and financial. I 'm not sure that I want to be in a committed relationship with him--there I go, I AM sure that I don't want to be in a committed relationship with him! I have so many issues with reality, so I' hoping to learn and maybe grow and develope. I never have been able to do things in a strong and brave way, maybe we can put our thoughts out there and learn. Hope to here from you and anyone else in this kind of situation. Peace and calm, Joan
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