Focus on Yes I Can Instead of Lack

Forget about all the reasons why something may not work. You only need to find one reason why it will. Then that is where your focus and drive can begin to get what you want in life or get a project done. We can all list about 100 reasons why something won’t work but it only takes one, one reason, even if it is small to say that no matter what because I have this one reason it is going to work!!

When people put down your ideas just use it to reinforce your belief that is going to work. A No Matter What Attitude is crucial in making the impossible possible for yourself. Just keep in mind it is not their wants or needs, it is yours. You matter the most to you, if others support you than great keep them around. You need that boost of energy sometimes. If not, then nourish yourself with love and positivity. Even when you have no idea what the next step is just put your foot forward and move. You will create the opportunities you need to make your goal or wish happen. If you come from a place of gratefulness and gratitude for the moment now you not only feel better but you will see the opportunities as they come. If you are in a state of fear or worry you might get passed up because that is where your mind is.

It is easy to get caught up in the state of fear or worry. Turn on the news, radio or newspaper, it is telling us what we should worry about all the time. I mute the TV until the weather comes on then that is the only part I watch now. When we do the opposite and begin to be aware of our thoughts and begin to turn them around during the day to gratitude you walk with a lighter step, smile more and laugh. You days are flowing instead of resisting, you are making your life easier instead of going up a mountain. All of this sounds so great but what if you are in the middle of a crisis? Whether it be financial, health or relationship? I have found so many times when you stop the behavior or way of thinking inside of you then you will get different results.

Think about this example. A toddler asks for a can of soup. You say I don’t see any as you are looking in the pantry. Your toddler asks but I want some soup. You again say I don’t see any. So what does the toddler do again? He/she asks for the same thing. You begin to get agitated and reply I already told you I don’t see any. If you take a step back and can look just because you don’t see any doesn’t mean it’s not in there in a toddlers mind. They haven’t gotten the life experiences yet to know when we don’t see something it doesn’t mean it’s not there. We as adults often believe if we don’t see it then it must not be there. So begin to think outside the box and even if you don’t see it believe it is there and go for it!!

This my friends is where your focus on getting all you would like in life. We should all have this type of driving force in our lives and have fun. Most of all to enjoy life and all it has to offer us. Expect the impossible to become possible for you. This is when your miracles in life begin to happen.

Much love to you all

April Nicole