The Road to Forgiveness and Love….

In life, it is easier for us to be selfish than it is for us to think about someone else first. It’s easier to judge than it is to love unconditionally. It’s easier for us to gossip than it is to stand guard around someone’s reputation.

So as we go through life in this state, we often ‘hurt’ each other.
We have tender hearts, yet we can easily injure each other with our words and our actions. The wounds we inflict leave marks.

It is inevitable that we will be ‘hurt’ by others in the journey through life. At some point, someone will say something that wounds you deeply; someone will offend you, neglect you, or step on your toes. Some hurts will be deeply felt and the trust is betrayed. In some situations, an apology won’t fix things or heal your heart.

When people ‘hurt’ or offend you, you have the opportunity to be open and more loving, even though you may be feeling the pain that someone else’s decision caused. Be more forgiving – release them from the wrong done to you. Remember that they may be hurting just like you, so give them grace, love and forgiveness…and then pray that healing will restore what has been wounded.

The best way to avoid hurting other people is not to be self-focused. Don’t expect others to meet your needs. Instead of thinking about what others can do for you, focus on what you can do for them.

When you do hurt someone, as happens in life, share your regret then learn from the experience. Focus on the positive qualities in others instead of dwelling on the differences. Move forward from anger and self pride and share in a stronger relationship. Be kind and compassionate to one another.

Our relationships in life are much more valuable than holding on to hurtful situations…or the pride that gets in the way of growth and abundance.

Move forward with joy sharing love and forgiveness as you travel the road to a peaceful life.

In Gratitude for Love and Forgiveness…
Linda Kay Holden
New Beginnings Community