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Posted Jul 18, 2009 02:05 PM
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What are your strengths? Here’s an easy, excellent way to discover your strengths.

Ask yourself this question: What do you feel while you are doing an activity?
- It comes naturally to you
- It feels easy, almost effortless
- It just flows, don’t have to try very hard to do it,
- You enjoy doing it, you feel ‘on fire’
- Time flies by when you are doing it
- You concentrate and focus with excitement, energy, inquisitiveness
- You want to do it more and more
- You want to learn more about it
- You feel strong, confident while doing it

Make a list of these activities.
When you are doing something that makes you feel and experience some of the emotions listed above, make note of that activity right then.

You are accumulating your list of strengths…. This is an exciting time because you are discovering strengths you didn’t even realize you have.

Use your strengths to help you find your passion…. or to reaffirm your current passion.
When you find your passion using your strengths as the base starting point, your chances of finding your true passion are excellent. Why? Because you already love and enjoy doing them; you do these things with more ease and more emotions and feelings than other things.

A few years ago I completed a similar exercise when going through a transitional period. What I learned, to my surprise, was that I had been doing my passion for many years, even though I didn’t realize it. I always enjoyed doing what I did, and the exercise reaffirmed what I felt.

Over the years I continued doing many of these same daily and weekly activities, however some adjustments as to where I used my strengths occurred as time went on.

Consulting, strategizing, empowering and inspiring people were always regular activities for me. It started as door-to-door Fuller Brush Rep (I broke the rules of ‘pushy’ sales tactics because I just couldn’t do them; in fact I hated them. Meeting and being with people, assisting them was what I loved. So I tried using a “What questions do you have today and let’s try to find a solution’ approach. I was so grateful it worked… cause I was too scared to do the recommended process.

Six years later my seamstress business started. Later I became an employee in corporate world consulting with clients…. followed by starting and building my own consulting business to entrepreneurs and other businesses and organizations. Consulting, strategizing, empowering and inspiring people has been a dominant theme throughout my life…. no matter what I was doing. It was, is and will be my passion.

I encourage you to become more keenly aware of activities you love doing, make a list of them to see how they fit into what you currently do or what you may want to do.

Enjoy this process and the clarity that will come to you about your strengths. It will guide you toward your passion, your dream business, your dream life.

In great gratitude,
Barbara Filla
Passion Branding Community
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Dr. Sugar,

I’m with you – passionate all the way. I feel that passion every time I blog or participate in the community, as I imagine the women of the BHW Community wanting and deserving to be ‘complete’. Within me, I am focused on how can I inspire, empower, encourage …….

Total wellness, mental, physical, emotional and spirit is key. I’m passionate about them plus … every BHW member deserves the assistance that allows women to move more quickly and completely….

-- Financial prosperity
-- Living in a world where freedom and liberty exists. That gives us the opportunity to live and manifest ourselves as a ‘complete’ person as we were designed by our Creator. We can choose to accept responsibility and be accountable to ourselves to become what we desire.

Dr. Sugar, that’s why I believe we are all here together…. each person using their unique talents, skills and knowledge to offer, assist, provide a comprehensive, complete picture and guide for each other of a path of action to ‘total wellness’ (mental, physical, emotional, spirit, financial, living in world of freedom and liberty).

Imagine the good impact the BHW can have on the entire world (all of mankind) as we are becoming more ‘complete’!

I appreciate your input.

Barbara Filla
Passion Branding Community
Hi Diane,

I appreciate your comments and agree with you too, in terms of finding your passion. Your comments add another perspective that may be just the right things (words, etc.) that inspires some people, each of us being so unique.

Strengths are described as natural talents (we are born with), skills and knowledge (we learn) accumulated along the path of life. Strengths are thought to precede or be the foundation of finding your passion, because we are attracted to things that embody our strengths.

As people explore the wide and hopefully new world to find their passion, they likely to explore areas that reflect component(s) of their talents, skills and knowledge.

Thanks again for your thoughts, Diane. Keep them coming.

Barbara Filla
Passion Branding Community
I love being a BraveHeart Women.
I am passionate about inspiring the women in this community to love their bodies/hearts/souls/minds - - Inspiring women to take steps daily towards total wellness - mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.!
When I read your questions
- It comes naturally to you
- It feels easy, almost effortless
- It just flows, don’t have to try very hard to do it,
- You enjoy doing it, you feel ‘on fire’
- Time flies by when you are doing it
- You concentrate and focus with excitement, energy, inquisitiveness
- You want to do it more and more
- You want to learn more about it
- You feel strong, confident while doing it

I thought... that is the way I feel when I am in our community!
Thanks!
To Your Total Wellness,
Dr. Sugar

Your own Community Doctor- Isn’t that Sweet!!
I fully agree with what you have said. But I also believe we need to branch out to do things we have never done before because we might just find another passion buried within that is just waiting for the right circumstances to burst forth.

I can use myself as an example. From childhood I have loved doing crafts: sewing, knitting, doll-making, and many other crafts. I became a graphic artist and worked in that field for 15 years.

Though I loved to read I had never had a desire to write. That changed when someone moved in across the hall from me with a three-year-old daughter. After I got to know them, I spent a lot of time with Jessica, watching Sesame Street with her, reading to her, writing down the stories she would dictate to me, etc. That led to my writing several children's books. Since then I have written many other books, some for children, some for adults. If I had not allowed myself to venture into the world of that child, I might never have learned that there was a gift lying dormant within. Though I have not had much published so far, I do have a novel manuscript at a publishers now for them to consider. Who knows where that will take me if they decide to publish it?

So, yes, we should go with our passions, but also be adventuresome and move out into new, uncharted waters. You never know what you might discover!

Diane Stephenson
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