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Do You Really Understand Your Passion?

Posted Feb 25, 2009 03:21 PM
I thought I had a pretty clear understanding of my vision, my purpose and my passion. I found, quite by accident I really didn't have clarity of my vision.
I wasn't quite sure how raising two little girls was assisting others, other than providing a home and security for them. I thought I had to have some sort of "HUGE" external purpose. Then hit me...this is "HUGE". And Necessary.

I have seen through the role of my former "career", as well as going through the process of adopting my two precious girls, the challenge that many go through in assuming a new responsibility, as well as the impact our "system" has on it's children.

There are many children who have depleted self esteems and in many cases a broken emotional system or body. One comment that was made to myself & my husband from the Attorney for the State, was that every attempt was to be made to reconcile children with their parents, and that they had to have proof that the child or children "would not survive"!!!! How preposterous! A person can "survive" under a great many abusive situations. This is not acceptable.

I wish to find a way to assist both the families taking on this new role, as well the children in finding love and acceptance from themselves as well as the new families.
Now, I'm not quite sure how to go about this, but accept my new challenge and action course.
I believe that as Women and in most cases Mothers, nurturing is an essential part of our makeup. If each of us start at home, by the examples we teach as well as giving the gift of "personal development", starting with our own children.
Imagine if we had started this personal journey of self discovery at a more impressionable age....What would the world look like?

I believe we have the ability to stop the cycle of abuse.
What do you think?

Submitted by:
Carol Carroll
The Grandma/Mom
4 Comments
Aloha Carol,
We Absolutely have the ability to stop the abuse!
First - I applaud you and Doug for your willingness to participate so vitally in the lives of your two girls. As unthinkable as it is, many would not do what you are doing. I feel as though you are following
the highest purpose.
Secondly - the adoption process is, in far too many cases, just downright absurd. I am not too joyous to admit that it daunted me! I felt as though I was on trial for having a place in my life and heart for a waiting child. The process wore me down and out. It is something I still have sadness about. I do not know what the answer to finding "a way to assist both the families taking on this new role, as well the children in finding love and acceptance from themselves as well as the new families." AND, I would very enthusiastically lock arms with you finding a way to bring more families together, and children to their homes of destiny.

Let us be the start of demonstrating to the "state" what raising the bar on "survival" might do for us as a nation and as a planet.

I vividly see a "More Happy Endings" movement being born!

Please contact me! Let us brainstorm! Let it begin! Children not yet born will live fuller, more purpose-filled, joyous, BraveHearted lives.

Warmest Aloha,

Linda
808 929 9569
Hi Carol,

You may think you don't know how you will assist the families and the children that are in need but, your deep level of passion will guide you through the journey.

I feel that the cycle of abuse can be stopped by taking the first step which is like you said starting with our own children.


Audie
Kids and Pets
Hi Carol,
You make the perfect Grandma/Mom. I hear it in your voice everytime I talk to you. The passion, caring and love show.

Barbara Filla
Passion Branding Community
Hi Carol,

What a rewarding and challenging project you have chosen for yourself. Granted the world would look much different if we begin to more selflessly nurture ourselves, our family and our neighbors. Go for it!!!
I am all admiration! :)
Rijuta Tooker
Manifest your Soul-Power!
Soul-Power Community
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