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Finding the good... in the not so great situation!!

Posted Nov 7, 2009 12:13 AM
Last week I took a few items to the dry cleaners. Received my claim ticket, and was told they would be ready for pickup on Monday.

For some reason, I was very careful to keep my claim ticket, (which I don't normally do) and when I returned on Monday to pick up my items, I was told they didn't know where they went.

They didn't know if my items had been lost... handed out to the wrong person... or mis-tagged.

So they asked me to return at the end of the week.

And today being Friday, I went back. I was told that they really didn't know what happened. My 3 items were nowhere to be found. This entire time I have been dealing with the owner, but today her husband came out and began to ask me questions.

He asked me to describe the sweater that I dropped off. As I began to describe it you could tell he was getting riled up too. And he began describing my sweater, better than I had. After a lengthy discussion in another language with his wife, she buried her head in her hands and he began telling me that the new girl that they had just fired yesterday was wearing that sweater at work just a couple days ago. He said he remembered it because it was unique, and she hadn't ever dressed like that before.

So as the discussion grew, they told me that the former employee had stolen my dirty dry cleaning!!!

I was frustrated.... but as I thought about it... I realized that in some strange way this could be perceived as a compliment. I must have good taste in order for her to steal 3 pieces of my dirty clothing!!!!

So I still don't have any resolution... or clothes back.... but they said they are working on it, and they do have insurance for this type of thing!

But I figured it was a good enough lesson in grounding myself.... and truly searching for the good in every situation!
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Interesting post Crystal. Yes, everyone is our teacher.
Hi Crystal

Thank you very much for your comments on my blog

You are amazing

Joy to you
Wow that's a great example of intuition.
Hello Crystal,

I appreciate the sharing....for some reason unknown to us, this girl obviously felt a strong need to do such a thing. The fact that you can release the situation and have blind faith that all will be resolved - is empowering to you and to her.

Take care and as always it is good to hear from you! :)

Lynette
Formula To Manifest Community
Hi Crystal,
I am new, just signed up to be a BraveHeart Woman and I am incredibly inspired already without even having fully filled in my profile. Thank you for the inspiring first post of my experience here. :-D
Hi Crystal,

I guess you have to remember that everyone has a story.
Whatever hers might be to wear another persons clothing is up to our imagination!

Way to go on turning it around and making it a good situation.


love,

Audie

Kids and Pets Community
Hy Crystal

You inspire me to evolve and "to find the good in the not so good situations"

wooww ...I appreciate you

Lots of joy your way
Wow! That girl must really be broke out in brains to help herself to your clothing,
and then WEAR it to the sight of the crime!! :O

What could she possibly be thinking?

Thanks for sharing this experience here - it is an excellent example of how we can spin our events to serve us. I trust you will find the resolution to this, and that the girl will also learn a valuable lesson in all of this.

Our lessons appear in very interesting ways, don't they?

Aloha,
Linda

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Crystal, you are to be commended for your BraveHeart View of the siuation. You have taught us much to take another view and remain grounded.

Thank you for sharing this valuable lesson. :-x

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Hi Chrystal,

An amazing story!!!
Sad to loose your clothes ...but it is a beautiful reinforcement of the honesty and intregrity of many people.

And....you have the best attitude of all!
Looking for the good in situations leads to a more grounded and empowered you!

Thanks for sharing...:-x
Linda Kay Holden
New Beginnings Community
Dear Crystal,

You get my strangest story of the day award...your dirty laundry....whoa....it must have been a really cool sweater....nuts!

If the owners were honorable enough to tell the truth, I am certain it will get resolved in a like wise fashion......but that sure is bizarre. I had a friend that got caught stealing butter mints of all things....who still eats butter mints? and on top of that steals them? I thought it was the oddest thing. I've read it is more for the thrill than the item....but I don't know.

Thanks for sharing Crystal. I hope you are doing well since your return from RISE. As always, great to hear from you!
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Love,:-x

Debra
The Honor Your TruthCommunity
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