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The Gift, the Grin, and the Walker!

Posted Aug 29, 2010 11:11 AM
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The lady I passed on my walk this morning smiled at me. I know, you’re thinking, “Whoa, Ellen, you are writing strong now!” Hear me out. She SMILED at me. I’ve been working on her for ninety days, normally it doesn’t take 90 seconds to get a smile back, and people are usually incapable of resisting it! It’s part of my charm.

See, I have what is known as a million dollar smile – nothing I can take credit for, we thank genetics and my Creator, the Great Celestial Orthodontist; I was born with good gums and straight teeth with no obvious imperfections.

I learned early on my smile could work wonders; it tames lions, soothes savage beasts, and sometimes gets me my way. It has gotten me in a lot of trouble and out of a lot of jambs, but few have ever outright resisted it. Except, “The Walker”.

This woman, you can tell, is a force to be reckoned with. She has a mean stride, I’m surprised there isn’t smoke trailing behind her. She uses those walking poles, you know, the kind that amp up your speed? She is awesome! She’s got a couple of decades on me and leaves me in the dust. I’ve learned to deliberately walk the opposite direction she’s headed so I don’t get disheartened when she whizzes past me.

So, since April, every time she comes my way I flash her a smile. At first it was just the grin, head nod, acknowledgement thing. She ignored me. Since then I have steadily upped the smile wattage. Still nothing. Now I’m up to at least $900,000 worth of my proverbial million dollars, and -- nothing. Nada. Zip. No response.

Finally, I stopped trying. And then I felt guilty every time I passed her and didn’t smile.

I know. I’m a head case.

Recently, I started smiling at her. Not to get her to smile back, but just because I’ve found it’s so much easier to smile than to not to. And, today, she smiled back. A big old teeth-showing number. It was great to see. We both smiled broadly and laughed.

The object lesson here? The one with the gift is responsible for using it. Shame on me for ever withholding one megawatt of its power.

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So? What say you? What gift have you been withholding? Hmmmm?

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"The one with the gift is responsible for using it. Shame on me for ever withholding one megawatt of it's power"

So wise, and so TRUE!

Thank-you!
Hi El!
As usual great writing that really makes one think. Here's where my brain went. I myself am a bull, a Taurus. I try soooo often to bend the world to my way and every so often I meet someone or something that doesn't want to play. That just makes me work harder to win them over. But I'm finding that like in your situation,when I my need to make it happen changed to purely wanting to do it, often the result changed. The universe is always there with a lesson in hand for those searching.

Congrats on the awesomeness of habit breaking. You inspire me, Now, which habit to start with????

:-xCaren
"The one with the gift is responsible for using it"...I love that line and it is so true. Whether or not people want to receive it, we're doing our own selves a disservice by not giving it.
You also had me cracking up at the line: "It has gotten me in a lot of trouble and out of a lot of jambs" because I too am a smiler (I don't profess to have the perfect smile, but it's pure unadulterated happy-happy-joy-joy) and I truly understand that sentiment!! I sometimes get people who, upon seeing me, actually look around trying to figure out "what that silly girl is grinning about?"
This was a great share...and I keep thinking of the scene from "Under the Tuscan Sun" when the old widow finally waves back. You "broke" her---to the benefit of both of you.
Love it,
"Cheshire" Cat (aka creative cat)
Dear Ellen,

You are awesome with that Gift you have of a Beautiful Smile.

It is incredible how you touched the Walkers Heart & got a smile and were able to laugh together.

You are inspiring! You also made me smile all the way up here in Washington State.

Keep up the Great Work that you do.

Blessings with Love & Light,
Lisa Bull
Dear Ellen,

Thank you for sharing ... :-x ...

YOU are a charmer ... and someone with tremendous insights and wisdom ... :-x ...

To you I say, "Kudos! ... Wisdom like yours deserves an answer" .... :-x ...

TRUTH is ALL POWERFUL ... and TRUTH should never be ignored or discounted ... Sometimes hard to ascertain, but the TRUTH is ... that lady probably had a LOT of other things on her mind .. She was probably focused on that until she realized that nice lady I keep passing by on my daily "walk" has suddenly stopped smiling ... Oh, maybe she DESERVES a smile back ... Whoa! ... Powerful stuff that ... Who knew there was soooooo much power in a smile! ...

Keep sharing your powerful gifts, my dear ... Keep on keeping on ... :-D ...

With much gratitude, deep respect, my love and many blessings ... :-x ...


Alooooha pume hana,

Barb
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