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A Child's Response

Posted May 25, 2009 09:13 AM
This is from a posting by Ashley from the site: HelpOthers.Org
A valuable lesson!

"Last spring I was walking in a park. A short distance ahead of me was a Mom and her three-year-old daughter. The little girl was holding onto a string that was attached to a helium balloon.
All of a sudden, a sharp gust of wind took the balloon from the little girl. I braced myself for some screaming and crying.

But, no! As the little girl turned to watch her balloon go skyward, she gleefully shouted out, "Wow!"
I didn’t realize it at that moment, but that little girl taught me something.

Later that day, I received a phone call from a person with news of an unexpected problem. I felt like responding with, "Oh no, what should we do?" But, remembering that little girl, I found myself saying, "Wow, that’s interesting! How can I help you?"

One thing’s for sure - life’s always going to keep us off balance with its unexpected problems. That’s a given. What’s not preordained is our response. We can choose to be frustrated or fascinated. No matter what the situation, a fascinated Wow! will always beat a frustrated Oh, no.

So the next time you experience one of life’s unexpected gusts, remember that little girl and make it a Wow! experience. The Wow! response always works."
1 Comment
Hi Joni,

As a parents we tend to think that we should always be the teacher of our children but if one stops to listen the exact opposite is the reality.

I will remember the the little girl with the balloon and apply her 'fascination' to the inevitable bumps in the road of life.

Great post, thanks for sharing,

Audie
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