New TeleCourses

Hello! I want to tell you about two TeleCourses I have available. One is "Release the Past ~ Create Abundance" based on the work of Louise L. Hay. The second is my own work, "Doors Opening".

Both TeleCourses focus on helping people to open themselves up to living a more purposeful, meaningful, abundant (in all areas), prosperous lives.

I want to talk about something I think is really important in relationships, and is so often overlooked ~ the love language we speak!!

I'm not talking about actually speaking words - which is nice. We all like to actually hear the words once in a while. But what I'm really talking about is what our partner does that makes us feel special and loved. And that's not the same for everyone.

When we're dating and in that "in love" stage, we bombard each other with words, tokens, and gestures of love. But as time progresses some of those expressions fade out and we offer our love in ways that are most comfortable for us. However, that may not be the way in which the other person feels most loved. For instance, it might be most comfortable for me to express my love with a clean house and home-cooked meals at the end of the day. However, my spouse may not feel really special and loved unless he gets some undivided attention from me to tell me about his day. Conversely, I may not feel special and loved without a special evening out every now and then - completely planned by him. But we won't know these things about each other unless we talk about them. Just keeping that empty feeling inside and chalking it up to the normal decline of romance only adds to the problem and perpetuates it.

So, know what your love language is and find out what your spouse's is. But also know how much is required. Do you need to provide an evening out every week? Is it OK to have some undivided time together to talk every day? I know that may sound silly, but some people with very routine jobs, or activities, don't feel they have a lot to say at the end of day and maybe every other day would help them come up with something interesting to say. You don't know until you ask!

Check back for more on this topic. In the meantime, go to my webpage: www.drkathrynonline.com where you can "join my list" to receive my monthly, free newsletter.