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Time Is Now on My Side

Posted Mar 4, 2010 12:36 PM
I just sent my weekly newsletter out, and today's article shared my best secrets to successfully managing my time so that I have more time to spend doing the things I love.

I shared that since I've always been a high achiever and perfectionist, the hardest step in getting my calendar under control was just accepting that I couldn't do everything on my To Do List.

This was so difficult because I thought that if I just worked a little harder and with more efficiency, I could do everything. I thought I just needed a better system to get it all done.

It took me a while, and some stress-related symptoms, to realize that 1) I actually could do everything, 2) but to get it all done meant I had to work way too hard, 3) that was a bad, and unhealthy, system, and most importantly, 4) I still wasn't happy.

I think I was trying to prove something to myself (or someone else) at the time. But whatever it was, it was no longer important.

What was important was that I realize that there was not enough hours in the day to do everything on my list. Time is finite and there's just no way to stretch it. It's a precious resource and we must invest it wisely, not spend it frivolously.

Once I accepted this, I chose to begin investing in the activities that brought me joy and enriched my life.

So how about you? Are you investing your time on what's most important to you?


To read more about my secrets to better time management, or subscribe to LifeSMART News, click here.

Melissa Gordon is founder of LifeSMART Coaching and is dedicated to helping women live authentically. What does it mean to live authentically? It’s identifying your personal beliefs and values and then choosing to live by them. Even more, it’s about discovering what you’re passionate about and including it in your life. This could be finding your true calling or fulfilling some long held dreams. Discovering the True You can bring tremendous inner peace and joy. What are you waiting for? Visit LifeSMART Coaching and let Melissa help you live your best life now!
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Yay, Chickee! That's good to hear. So does that mean you never feel overwhelmed, overscheduled, and overworked? ;)
Dear Melissa,

I just read your article about the 5 pillars of time management. By your criteria I discovered that I'm a good time manager. I just didn't know it. Hurrah! :^O
Debra, you bring up a great point!

"What I feel I need work on is delegation. I dont delegate well even if someone wants to assist me...sometimes I still feel guilty or like a slacker."

So many women feel guilty accepting help, even when it's offered. We don't want to impose or we think accepting help means we can't handle the work load.

But delegating and accepting help has so many benefits. It fosters teamwork and camaraderie. It builds community and strengthens relationships. And helping others just plain feels good. So don't deprive a sister a chance to help if she's willing! ;)

I struggle with delegating, too, but I try to keep these things in mind when an opportunity to share the workload comes up.

Much love!

Melissa
Dear Melissa,

I am also a do-er. I get things done. I too find that I can nearly do it all...but I feel like if I had continued that way I would wind up sick. I dont slow down easily... but I do more than I used to.

What I feel I need work on is delegation. I dont delegate well even if someone wants to assist me.This is what I have been working on the past couple years. I have made some profound changes in this area. Although, sometimes I still feel guilty or like a slacker.

Thank you for sharing!

Love:-x

Debra
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