" Next ! "

I have many memories competing to rule my mind in random tyranny.

My success at quieting the disturbing ones determines the happiness factor of any particular moment.

A calm, self-assured movement through a reasonable day is really very appealing to me.

*smile*

Throughout my life, I have courted feelings of competence and value. Those courtships have been very sweet. They have been elusive and fickle partners. Infrequent, and brief.

I become consumed with my failures. I tend to hold on to things perceived as inefficiencies in me This does not serve me. .and Awareness Precedes Action

The one, singular piece of advice that was missing in my growing up years, is this:

“Linda, you will see the end of relationships. It is part of finding the right one..
Learn to move on with grace, gratitude, and speed.

Or:

“Linda, You’re gonna break up with a lot of guys – so GET GOOD AT IT!”

I think back on the extended grieving I afforded “ends” with sad curiosity
(“sad curiosity “ being the best substitute for “regret” which I have given up for lent)

I mean , what a waste of time! It was a bad match. NEXT!.

My current boss is a buoyant, joyful soul – a true gift to me right now. She is crafting an excellent sales person in me – to my utter amazement. Her mantra is “Next”

I got in a funk, and lost everything. My downward spiral coincided with the “economic crisis” that prevails, but believe me, my problem was that I just shut down….
A sad curiosity surrounds that memory too.

Next!

I am an educated, mature, healthy, .attractive, resourceful, BraveHeart Woman in America.!


I am blessed beyond measure.

*breath*

BraveHeart thoughts?

Linda Carol Berry


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