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It's Time To Get STRONG AT THE WEAK PLACES!

Posted Mar 12, 2009 04:51 PM
As I write this, I am challenged by a sadness settling upon me resulting from my helping my closest friends here on the island – my Hawaiian Ohana – prepare to move back to the mainland. These are the people with whom I share my holidays and many splendid evenings, camping trips, and potlucks (we are all great cooks!).
The economy is dismal everywhere, and particularly hard hit on a vacation destination island. When people are losing there shirts, they do not have the money to go to paradise. As a direct result many businesses here are closing there doors, and the ones that are staying open are cutting way back. That combined with a troublesome volcanic activity – for over a year Kilauea has been venting an impressive column of SO2 (sulfuric dioxide) which is giving people respiratory challenges – has made it a good choice for my friends to return to Kentucky and Washington state.
Whereas it will give my a great excuse to attend Derby Day, and explore western Washington, I am a more than a little concerned about just how I will fare without their hugs and smiles. These are the people who have filled my void of an actual family for many years.

And…this is a world class opportunity for Linda to get stronger at her weak places. I have a history of being not an especially outgoing person in most settings - BraveHeart gatherings being the exception! I tend to be reclusive and stay to myself a lot of the time. It is not accident that I inhabit the remotest corner of an island situated far out in the Pacific.

At this juncture, I will either come out of my historic shell, or be exceedingly lonely. As we say here, “It ain’t no tsunami!" AND, Linda has some growing to do…
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Aloha Monadeena,
How lovely to be recognized for your Mona Lisa, enigmatic smile! I am please to meet you here.
Funny, I have just realized how similar what I am experiencing today is to what I experienced in December of '95 when I (finally) boarded the plane at LaGuardia to make the move to another island...
I guess the unknown will always be grounds for proceeding with caution and heightened awareness.
It is the heart with a little "space" that attracts more things to love.
It sounds like maybe your friend has reason to expect that you will be the one who moves! I look forward to learning more about each other, Monadeena. Be Blessed.
Linda
Aloha Kiva,
I appreciate what you have written here.
... It's really quite an odd emotion I am feeling... I am enthusiastic about the future for my friends , and I am confident that they are doing what is correct for them to do, and that unknown joys lie before all of us, that only the fullness of time can expose.
Having just helped out with yard sales and packing, and currently looking at "Mt. Goodwill" that has accumulated in my living room - MY ENTIRE living room! - I am feeling somewhat overwhelmed, and definitely "careful" as I make my way through of all the memories connected with each item I see...
So I am grateful for your vote of confidence as I continue on the path before me!
It is the willow that bends that survives the storm -- this is my chance to develop my flexibility - to the MAX! ;)

Thank you,
Linda
Hi Linda,
Here I am in Manhattan dreaming of being in the corner of an isolated Island. Thanks for providing a vicarious experience for me.
It sounds like this change has already sharpened your self awareness so in a way this change is somewhat of a blessing. I often play this game of what will I do if my friend (a trained pastry chef of all things) moved away -- she is younger and sharing a studio with her writer husband so it's bound to happen eventually. It has tripled my feelings of gratitude for the time we do have. When things move out of your life it does make room for new ones. Sounds as if they have given you enough to keep you going forever.
I'm called monadeena because I'm told I have a Mona Lisa smile but it's really because I moan a lot. You are making me more aware how importnat it is to feel gratitude every moment for everything life shows and gives us.
monadeena
Linda,
I understand your pain, but just know that change is good. When we are forced to be by ourselves that is the time we discover ourselves. So take this opporunity to learn more about Linda and watch your life soar in great ways.

have a great weekend

Kiva
Aloha Deborah,
You and I are both currently going through dramatic life changes - good AND challenging! Remember that you always have a island respite here in Ocean View! Your joyous smile is always welcomed in my home! AND... should you want to invite me to taste the Bermuda lifestyle, I will be there in a New York Nano second! ;)
Love you, my friend!
Linda
Linda, I was an island for so long and in many ways I am still overcoming. Yes I too would probably love living in Hawaii and just last night I was researching Bermuda. Sometimes when I'm going through things I visit the remote places in my mind just to make a getaway.



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Aloha Joy!
Thanks for the "Heads Up"! I did not know I was going to require a Fantastic Hat! And - I'm up for that! As an ex-*drobe, I am very enthusiatic about anything that's worn!

It's key to remember that the most important thing to wear is my smile. I do intend to see them - not as frequently - and certainly as fun-filled!

Thanks for the encouragement Joy!

Linda


* "Drobe" - a little known term outside of industry circles, the word DROBE is an abbreviation for (get this) "Wardrobe Engineer." We like it. "Drobe" is succinct and has a certain ring.... and sort of puts one in mind of worker bees, which is altogether accurate!
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Dear Linda, You will always have friends, because you are such a sweet person. I am sure you will hear from your friends that are moving often. And wow, I have always wanted to go to the Derby and wear a fantastic hat!!!! :)
Aloha Kathy,
Yes, you are correct. Thank you for the reminder. Exciting and unforeseen things lie ahead. Nature abhors a vacuum
Be Well, always!
Linda!
Aloha Cheryl
...tears into strength...how poetic...and true
Be Well and strong and warm in Montana!!
Love you very much,
Linda
Aloha, Linda,

Change, transition, tears into strength, I think of you often. Be well my friend,

Your BraveHeart sister in Montana,
Cheryl Neithercott
Aloha Linda,

It's funny how the tide comes in and the tide goes out
but the only constant is change itself. Your friends will
always be in your Heart as, I'm sure, you will be in theirs.

And, new places to visit!

Grief is a period of transition and then....who knows,
a whole new set of friends will show up...

My heart goes out to you and....

How are you today?


Kathy Bibby
Aloha Leslie
Yes! A constant period of transition pretty much describes us , doesn't it? Thank You for your care!
Linda
Aloha Beautiful Bell,
Thank you, and please feel the joy I have in the knowledge that I will never walk alone!
*big hug*
Linda
Aloha, my dear Sister...

Linda, I want YOU to know... I Love YOU & I can FEEL your sadness... I'm sending lots of LOVE your way... And, lots of HUGS too...

Did you Receive them yet? :)

Linda, your Hawaiian Ohana will ALWAYS be with YOU... In your Heart & Soul... From ALL the Loving Memories you've shared & the ONES you will continue to share...

Continue BEING that Beacon of "LIGHT" that shines with brilliant brightness and YOU will continue attracting Amazing souls into your Life!

And oh by the way... YOU have ALL of US! :)

“If you look at what you have in life,
You’ll always have more.
If you look at what you don’t have in life,
You’ll never have enough.”

by: Oprah Winfrey


Stay STRONG my Beautiful & Loving Sister...

From my Heart to Yours,
Bell Rushing

Gentle Warrior Community
To the Lovely Linda,

I feel your pain, and have been there. It is good that the world is smaller now with all the technology. But, I know, not the same....

I relate to what Debra said above, about feeling in a "constant period of transition". Let's all go through this together BraveHeart Sisters.

Lesley Morgan
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