Why Single Women Attract Needy Men

Question of the week:

Erica, why do I seem to attract men who are needy? I want to be with a man who is stable and can take care of his own, however, I keep attracting needy men. What signals am I sending them?

There are three reasons that you may be attracting a needy man:

1.Subconsciously you may feel that you have to take care of a man.
2.You want to save men and help them be who they were called to be.
3.You enjoy helping people so much that you train men to be dependent upon you.

Mr. Right Attraction Assignment

1.Only help those who help themselves.
2.Create a set of boundaries around helping men.
3.Feel good saying no.
4.Take a step back and re-evaluate the situation. Why do these men feel like they can depend on you and what is their situation? What types of behavior are you displaying that would give a man the idea that he can depend on you?

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