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Uncomfortable During Transitioning

Posted Feb 6, 2012 09:14 PM
Transitioning to anything at times can feel like I got stuck on a crowded bus, where I am over dressed, there is little ventilation and I am fatigued by balancing and supporting the weight of my baggage on my knees. No wonder we can be grumpy during these times. 2012 for many of us is a time of transition. If we reflect back we know we made the commitment to change (including spiritual ones) so why are we so surprised by the adjustments that are being made in our lives? Including adjustments to our body, our mind, emotions, relationships and roles.

I have found that it can be a long uncomfortable ride if I think I can bring everything along. Attachments to how other people should be or ideas of how I view myself are only a sample of what I have packed. Worrying if I can handle the changes makes me bundle up more and pant with fear.

The commitment to change is a type of goal. It can be like putting a perishable in the fridge and knowing if you don’t use it up by the expiry date you will miss out. The pressure begins to build. I have to do something about this. I need to make plans and organize. I need to control my schedule and for that matter my husband and everyone else I know. Wow, it can just keep going from here. Soon you can’t even recall and feel why you wanted to make the change in the first place. Nor do you even care.

Haaaa…. This feminine movement within the Brave Heart Women community is teaching us that we can have our goals and they can come into fruition naturally with greater ease. As women we have the innate knowing but we have trouble accessing it consistently. Ellie and her community teach us how to become more attuned to this feminine wisdom and power that resides within our biology that is congruent with our purposes and spiritual connection.

I created the Mastermind Grove here in the Brave Heart Women community so that we sisters can have a place to learn more about this as it relates to us personally, within the safe and supportive environment created by generous loving progressive sisters.

Our society is really only beginning to be influenced by this powerful balancing of energies. It is time to be the change we want to see in the world. Doing it alone isn’t aligned to the feminine knowing. A mastermind is created by members and their hearts influence the quality of it. One of the big things we are learning in the Mastermind Grove is for our minds to serve our hearts. The learning is through life experiences shared. I invite you to join us and together we can discover and eventually master the art of directing our goals beautifully. Visit www.mastermindgove.com here in the Brave Heart Women community.
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Haaaaaaaaaaaaa...... Thank you sisters. It is so nice to be understood and related to.
Debby,

I so needed this wisdom today! I feel that I am in a safe environment, a loving container of progressive Sisters! Experiencing all this growth, stretching into my greatness, creating a history with women such as yourself is beyond my wildest dreams. Once you get a taste of this consciousness, you can't turn back, so we have to appreciate the "BUS RIDE." Thank You Debby, excellent post.
Love You, Laurie
" Where there is no struggle, there is no strength."
~ Oprah
I love how you connect bringing everything along and attachment. This was one of my big lessens this year. Letting go of others thoughts and suggestions of who I am to be and simply BEING. Without these attachments, I am able to squeak through the crowd to find a seat easy, and to pop off the ride when I wish, with a skip in my step of course.

Thank you for this beautiful post.

Kat Bickert of Empowered Lily
Grow, thrive, flourish.
Dear Debby,
This post was filled with powerful imagery. I could feel myself sitting on the bus next to you and feeling the weight of responsibility, commitment and time weighing heavier until I didn't feel I could move anymore.

I absolutely concur with your statement that "Doing it alone isn't aligned to the Feminine Knowing". If we each, as women do not own and share our gifts with other women, we continue to be isolated and alone. No longer my choice, I have seen and experienced the amazing space that is created when women come together to be, create and collaborate together for the good of us all- and it is a truly exquisite place.

Many Blessings to you! Thank you again for sharing from such a deep place.

Much Love,
Julie & Leslie
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