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Soar Like An Eagle

Posted Feb 26, 2010 12:04 PM
I feel inspired to write this after having recently surfed our global community.

I believe that it takes courage to present to others thoughts and feelings, particularly when we consider them to be our innermost ones. That goes for whether self-disclosure is done by talking, writing, etc. and no matter the forum of choice. I also believe that when that step is undertaken that it can open up a wonderful journey of self-discovery, learning, sharing, growing, and self-actualization. The process can take a long time.

I think that it’s important to remember that when we send in a sentence, a blog, a story, a poem, a thought, an idea, a comment, etc. for example, to all of us here on BH or share our work with others outside this community, work which we may consider revealing about ourselves, that the feedback can be instrumental in addressing our personal growth in our individual journey. For example, a poem, a story, a journal, a blog, an article, etc.—a personal creation that evolves from one’s thoughts, feelings, inner depths and soul, personal beliefs, etc.--and it’s those gems that can perhaps be held up to scrutiny—not you personally. The writings, yes, are very personal because they came from within you—just as when a mother gives birth to a child. We nurture the child, do our best to bring he or she up right, recognize that eventually they’re on their own, and we have to accept that we’ve done all that we can, raised them to the best of our ability, and let them fly on their own, as separate entities from ourselves, but still with a connection.

We will always love the ‘child’ (an article, a blog, a story, a poem, a journal, etc.) which we created. As we travel along life’s path and continue with our journey, we learn how to improve on raising our next ‘child’ while we go about watching it grow to fruition. There is a sense of accomplishment, achievement, feeling good about completing the work and having done it to the best of our ability. All of us at some point and in our own way have done that. I don’t think that anyone can ask for more than that. We’ve simply done it…made our little babies ‘fly’….and if we choose to expand on that, for example, by putting a story, an article, a poem, etc. into a book, be that an e-book or otherwise, they will have the opportunity to soar like an eagle, carrying your message wherever they go…and you will have reached new heights…journeying on the path of self-actualization! :-x
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Hi Angeliis,

I’m so very glad that you connected very well with what I wrote here, that it ‘spoke to you’, and that it has meaning for you. I sincerely appreciate the time you’ve taken to write me to let me know. Thanks very much.

I agree with you that it is exciting and inspirational to see one’s words in print particularly if others enjoy them and give positive feedback. Yes, it does give one a confidence boost, and I’m very happy for you that you’ve received these from positive comments about your poetry.

I have something I’d like to share with you about confidence. I came across it only this morning when I was going through some papers I’ve had around for a long time and decided to 'spring clean' the files…perhaps it was meant to be that I add it here for you:

“Confidence
There are two kinds of confidence. The first and most common kind comes from others’ perceptions and opinions of you. It’s nice to have, but not always dependable. Employees who get their confidence from their jobs are stripped of it if they are fired or laid off. Models who rely on their looks for confidence dread middle age and its effect on appearance. If positive input from others is necessary for confidence (and it is), it must be coupled with the second kind of confidence…that which builds on your opinion of you.

There are many ways this second and most important kind of confidence grows—when you really try to achieve something: when you lose something you really wanted, and grow through your loss: when you learn you can trust your judgments and perceptions. In short, as you learn to like and accept yourself, internal confidence builds.”

Author Unknown

Yes, Angeliis, you’re spreading your wings. When you're ready to fly and soar like an eagle, you will know. ;)

The Beatles: “We get by with a little help from our friends”. :-x

With warm regards,
Laura
Hi Laura,

Just want to tell you when I read your blog I felt like I was reading a personal letter being written to me haha. Meaning.." I connected" very well with all you state. I personally ( as you know) love to write poetry but am not exactly comfortable exposing them all to the entire world to see simply because they are so deep and personal and come from my innermost thoughts and feelings.. However.. at the same time..deep inside my private little goal would be to see my poems in a book form haha..Because it is exciting and inspirational particularly if others enjoy them and give positive feedback. It does give you a confidence boost. So that is why I have shared more then one poem on the site here..I guess you would say "this angel" is spreading her wings haha

Fantastic blog I truly enjoyed and felt very connected to your heartfelt expressions.

Thanks for sharing.
Angeliis
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