Ritual Divas - How Trusting The Process Works!!

Hello Divas I trust you are well...I want to share some of my good news.

As some of you know, I am in the mist of some major life transitions - and this last step I was working through was putting our house up for sale...

Well it all worked out - the house officially went on the market last Wednesday, and it sold this evening - good news, but the better news is the lessons in all of this.

You see my former husband and I decided that the selling of the house had to be for the highest good of all - ourselves, our son that is still at home, the potential buyers and the real estate agents involved - everyone had to come out a winner...this was not necessarily going to be easy.

So we started by getting the house ready and de-cluttered as described in my last blog and then we actually put it up for sale. Phew, step one was done!

Long story short - we received an offer on our home last night - not quite what we had originally expected yet still a good offer.

What were we to do, because my ex and I, we were seeing things slightly different on this one? Hmmm

Thoughts that were running through our minds were:
- are we in lack mentality therefore that is why we are tempted to settle for the first offer - being in fear that we shouldn't counter offer and ask for more?

- is either one of us experiencing worthiness issues?

And I also felt it ran even deeper than that - was I feeling guilty of past times where I jumped into a business deal thinking it would give a good result and we would be further ahead... only to be bitten in the proverbial butt... and now I was not trusting self???

Then I realized that this was where we as a former couple needed to come together and end things cleanly... We both needed to communicate at a deep level... to communicate authentically what was important to each of us and to come up with a decision where it was agreed upon by both... where each could feel really good. This was not about one person giving in and not feeling right. And not to mention that we were each carrying a certain baggage re: financial experiences.

This was in fact a moment that you could call a crisis of trust and an opportunity to heal. We needed to forget about past "errors" and to only tune in energetically to what was at stake NOW.

Deep breathing ...and we each agreed to turn within, and tap into our core, our Essence and set the intention to clearly hear advice our agent was giving us... "Essence, guide us to hear clearly hear what is being said.", and then to both express what we feel we needed; next to come up with the mutual consensus, and then finally set forth together a strong intention for what was desired.

We did all that and we were able to agree upon and make a counter offer that we both felt was fair for all.

Two hours later, the counter offer had been made and accepted... and the three of us: the real estate agent, former hubby and I were each raising our glass of wine - toasting the ease and grace in which the deal had come about and toasting the moving forward towards the next step... each finding our own new space.

Sitting here writing, I am truly grateful for the ways in which things have unfolded!

One step at a time, and taking action only when it feels right, taking inspired action... trusting that the next stepping stone will be there...trusting the process... has worked out beautifully.

Intending the best and expecting the best goes a long way. N.B. At first the result may not always feel or look like the best result for you.Trust anyway.

Taking the time to really hear the other person through is a HUGE step in resolving and preventing potential conflict.

Turning within, and trusting your intuition is essential to taking right action and to co-creating effectively.We had been intending consistently around this house issue for a couple of months.

Thank you for allowing me to journey with you.

Cheers to manifesting more Joy, Success and Abundance!
Lynette

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