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Change the Beliefs That Can Get in Your Way—(Part 2)

Posted Jan 29, 2009 06:08 PM
What if your belief about this prevented you from effectively helping a larger number of people to change their present circumstances? Would you be strong enough to point out the belief that you could see was not to their highest good? Throughout my years as a counselor and in working with people in a home-business I know that helping someone change their beliefs can only be changed if they are ready to change.

"The degree that a person WILL change is based on two things:

1.The degree of DISCOMFORT they are FEELING in the present moment about their present circumstances (as they are talking about and feeling it).
2.The degree of their desire (FEELING) to change those circumstances.

People make changes based MOSTLY on feelings and not on logic. Unless you're prepared to allow people to talk about and express how they FEEL about their present circumstances, they're unlikely to explore making a change---IF making a change is what they are looking for. If someone does make a change based on logic-- the research shows that shows he/she is unlikely to continue in a home-business or “online turnkey business opportunity”. They will probably quit. Change must come from “the heart”.

The essential difference between feelings and logic is that feelings lead to action while logic leads to conclusions. Both of them are important; however feelings comprise 90% of the motivation for them to change their beliefs and therefore, their results. Therefore, it is important to challenge your own beliefs.

By challenging and changing your own beliefs about talking with anyone, anywhere, anytime, you can dramatically increase the number of people you can effectively assist to "change the course of your life". We must be strong enough to challenge other people’s beliefs and it is done lovingly by wanting the highest and best for them. Seeing them as the person they could be is critical and challenging the beliefs that can “get in their way” of success is so important. How do you feel about challenging someone that has beliefs that are “standing in their way”?
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