Intimacy and sexuality are a very strong component of who we are in a healthy relationship. How can we get there? One of the most important parts of creating a space for attracting intimacy in your life is allowing yourself to feel safe. I think safety is key to all areas of our life. When we are in a state of fear regarding anything, from fear of the unknown to fear of rejection what we attract is the same thing that we fear. When we are in a place of love and acceptance we attract that to ourselves. So to get to a place of feeling safe, we have to explore the deepest part of us, the place that is hidden from the pain of time, that child energy that has been wounded, hurt, rejected. This part of us holds us in the old pain, not allowing us to break free. Once we acknowledge its existence and are able to understand where this feeling came from, then we can start to heal.
Close your eyes and see that child from the past, the child that was the purest of loving energy. See you before the pain formed in your life. What does this child look like? How old is this child? Talk to your child energy, find out if there is something that you need to know or need to do to create that safe place for you. Take this moment to get to know that child energy and the wisdom that they share with you. If there is a word or phrase that comes from your time with your inner child, remember it and when you open your eyes write it down. Concentrate on what you heard, what you know to help you heal. You can go back and visit with your inner child at anytime, this is a special place of healing and growth. Create the sacred and safe part of you so that you can fully share with another that joyful dance of loving intimacy.