My focus has changed, I'm not Perfect but I'm better!

What we see depends mainly on what we look for.
- Sir John Lubbock

What am I looking for, what am I looking at? I know a lot of the time I look at what I Do Not Want! I don’t want to be out of shape/ I don’t want to be broke / I don’t want to get sick
It’s very important that I change my thought patterns, stop looking at what I Don’t Want and begin to look at What I Want.
I want to be fit and within my appropriate weight range / I want to make a certain amount of money / I want to be healthy.
If we focus on what we Don’t want or on what we Do want, we get what we Focus On!

Life is all about our perspective, children can grow up in the same household and experience a lot of the same things but it’s all about the child’s outlook on life and their interpretations of these events and how they allow them to affect them. I’m learning to look for the silver lining in every situation and circumstance, it takes persistence and dedication to do this but it’s the healthiest and most productive outlook to take on life. Yes, sometimes we may have to holler, whine and cry but when it’s over look for that silver lining grab it and hold on tight, I’ll guarantee you’ll enjoy the ride a whole lot more.
~Zena~