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Posted Jul 4, 2011 04:46 AM
Hello Sisters
Have you ever had one of those surprise moments when something happens, be it a phone call, an email or a message that you received in the post, one of those moments that changes your life forever??

You wake up feeling good, not quiet sure what the universe has in store?

With your sleepy body, you flick on the kettle, turn the computer on, let the dog out and in my garden there are chickens that need to be freed of their night dwelling and then it happens??

You open an email, only to find that someone has disappointed you? They have pulled the plug, given up on you? What happens next??

When that happens in my life, I usually cry, it is not often that tears just flow and when they do, I feel grateful because I know that my body will feel the same endorphins that it does when I laugh!!

So Sisters, tears can be a good thing, a great way to allow you to feel your way back into your day!

I would also phone or email a fellow sister, express myself and let it go!!

I would love to hear how you would feel in this situation??

What is important to you?

How may I help?

Karen Sheiles
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Apr 14, 2011 05:28 PM
Recently a few people have expressed their concerns in the lead up to this time, especially with the weather patterns we have been experiencing here in Australia.

I feel that our feelings intensify when it is happening in our own backyard!

One particular lady was so affected by certain events, that she was finding it difficult to plan ahead, I am organizing a 'Meet and Greet' in Brisbane 26 Nov 2011 and that was almost too close to 2012.

This disturbed me and I realized that I had mixed feelings myself, most of the negative ones had been suppressed deep in my body, hiding there just waiting, not knowing?

At the same time, I had this amazing sense of HOPE, without hope, how do we function, how do we get out of bed everyday to support our families, go to work and enjoy our lifestyle?

I also realized that I had hope because of this community, the women who share here and show me that they are inspiration in action and the global vision of this community and the events that are happening now and planned for the future, way beyond 2012!

I was doing some research on the Internet about 'Tools for Life' as I am putting some tools together, as part of my professional purpose and a website that I connected to about this, also had a page about 2012.

I watched several videos on this page and I want to share something from the last one:

"Think about the idea that you are moving through a hallway of intelligent infinity, you are walking through the corridors of the divine, every move that you make, every step that you take in this life is being recorded for infinity.

This life time that you now have may be the most important life time that you have ever had in the history of the cosmos because even if you have karma from other past lives, if you believe that such a thing is true? In this life time you have the opportunity to rectify all of that.

The point of power is in the present, it is not going to be in guilt over the past, it is not going to be in fear over the future. The prophecies of 2012 are prophecies that involve a golden age. It is only a misinterpretation of bible prophecy that leads us to think 2012 is doom and gloom.

That leads us to think that all the unpleasant things that we are seeing in the solar system are going to lead to massive tidal waves and massive cataclysms.

That is a misinterpretation, most of the prophecies say that we not only survive these changes, we thrive through the changes.

The changes are what breaks down the shell that we have built around our heart that has walled away love, walled away peace and walled away the present moment, the ability to focus in the now.

If you can just breath now and take in the living energy that forms your DNA because your DNA is not randomly evolved, your DNA exists all around you in space. The energy that makes your DNA can be with you now as you breath with me, as you take in that consciousness, as you understand who you are?

The greatest mystery of the universe is identity, your identity because the universe is a product of one consciousness, one energy.

That energy has created galaxies, the galaxies seem to have their own personality, the personality of this galaxy is to create human life."

David Wilcock
http://www.powerfultools4life.com/2012.php

This was some of what he talked about on the last video which is about 30 minutes. The other three videos, contain about 3 hours of information, about the science and spirituality involved.

David has his own website
http://divinecosmos.com/index.php/videos/free-videos-online

I hope this information helps?

What is important to you?

How may I help?

Love from Down Under
Karen Sheiles
Posted Mar 5, 2011 06:27 PM
A couple of weeks ago, another Mom confronted my daughter, at our house, on the evening that we were enjoying our house-warming party!

I walked into the kitchen, while this was happening in the dining area, not far away from me. A few years ago, I would have reacted immediately and demanded to know what was going on. Which would not be a suitable outcome for my 30 guests, who were having a nice time!

I did listen to what was said and discussed it with my daughter the following day. I made a decision to connect with this Mom via email to discuss what had occurred. It did take me some days to work out that nothing happened with out daughters that evening?

Apparently, about a month before this, our daughters were at my house, sitting at the pc and while they were waiting for Club Penguin to load they started talking about things that they did not like, it began with certain foods, situations, people and then parents. My daughter admitted that she did not like her friend's Mom.

None of us like to hear anything bad about our family, even if we say it ourselves. The other girl said she was going to tell her Mom, which resulted in the above.

What surprised me, as a Mom, is that we had seen each other several times since the incident, there was no prior discussion about what was said, nor did my daughter receive an opportunity to present her side of the situation and I would not confront someone's child?

I would discuss this with my daughter first and assist her with some tools to resolve the situation. We would do a role play or two and practice this several times before she talked to the other girl.

If the girls were not able to resolve the situation in that manner?

I would then contact the Mom and ask would it be possible for us all to meet, allowing the situation to be discussed, with our guidance and support, in order to resolve it?

If another child did not like me? I would also have some concerns as to why?

I would ask my daughter, what her opinion is as to why her friend did not like me?

Although I may not like what I am about to hear, I would take this on board and work out ways that I would be able to change myself to resolve this?

I would not confront a 10 year old, who came to the table to eat a piece of sushi and ask her, why she did not like me?

Now that I have taken responsibility for why I attracted this situation, I believe that it gave me an opportunity to look at how I speak to my own daughter? What tones I use, my voice control? Am I coming from a place of 'subtle bullying' or a loving place?

I realize that it is a habit for me to come more from 'subtle bullying' rather than from a 'loving' place. Yes this habit, is how I was parented, the loudness of my voice, representing anger, rather than the love and concern that I really want to show!

I have made a decision to change this and I feel empowered to have made that choice!!

I know that as a Mom, I would rather come from a 'loving' space and awareness of this brings about true healing!

What is important to you?

How may I help?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Mar 3, 2011 10:45 PM
Hello BH Sisters

I had a wonderful opportunity to speak with Ellie on a seminar call a few days ago and Ellie reminded me and the other sisters on the call, how collaborating with other women is often, how we too are able to learn to become inspiration in action.

I felt so empowered after this call!

Something else that came up for me, is that we have all faced challenges in our lives, some we would not wish upon anyone?

Some we may wonder how we survived at that time? How did we overcome that depression?

I know that there have been times in my life that I have asked, "What did I do to deserve this?" "What is the purpose in this coming into my life, with the misery that came with it?"

There have been times when my self esteem has been so low, that I have not been able to imagine how any good will ever come from this situation?

Then I had this 'Aha' moment! How these miserable situations, may be turned into a great opportunity?

What if I took all that I had learned, during those challenges, that go right back to being born into a dysfunctional family and used that information to assist other women in the growth of their own emotional intelligence?

How good would that be to turn a challenging part of my life into doing some good in this world by relating my experiences to other women, to assist them with their depression, low self esteem, parenting or other stressful situations?

So that is my intention, as part of my plan to become inspiration in action!

What is important to you?

How may I help?

Love from Down Under
Karen Sheiles
http://www.KInesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Jan 11, 2011 12:11 AM
Today I am receiving 2 inches of rain per hour, although I personally am under duress because that amount of water is difficult to shift and my garage is below the main house and I have filled it with wooden boxes (tea chests) ready to move house this week. There are many people dying in flood waters and many people missing, many of whom are children!

Australia has been very lucky during the Global Economic Crisis and now this, nature is changing that, very quickly!

Yesterday, there was an unprecedented, natural disaster, likened to an inland tsunami which started in the tablelands (our mountains are just under 1 mile high) about 3 hours drive inland from me, it happened in a matter of minutes. A 25 foot wall of water raged off the tableland below Toowoomba and surprised everyone in its path.

It followed the creek initially and took whole houses, cars with families inside (we are in summer holidays) and everything in its path! That was 24 hours ago and the news showed many people, who had clambered onto the roof of their houses, hoping to be saved!

With the continuing rain and thunderstorms, saving these people is difficult, the images on the news may be the last that those people are seen?

This weather is going to affect millions of people Australia wide, it is about to hit the capital of Queensland, Brisbane and 23,000 people are being advised to take their family records, photos and computers and leave their homes. It will continue to move down the eastern part of Australia to its end in Tasmania!

My daughter turned 10 yesterday, I am grateful that we are together and we are safe, she has been a wonderful helper during this time!

Mother earth is reminding us that we get back what we give! Love yourself first and then look after your family!

What is important to you?

How may I help?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Dec 10, 2010 10:10 PM
With only 9 days to do it all in, I believe that she is making the most of her time here so that she is able to show some of Australia, to her international audience?

Each and every person who has connected and collaborated with her here has made comment that she is a lovely lady! Oprah also represents great value! I believe that our government has contributed $50 million towards this visit, knowing that they will benefit from the value that she has to offer!

People trust her and therefore she has a huge sphere of influence. It is important to build trusting relationships with people, this will certainly add to the value that you have to offer people!

What is important to you?

How may I help?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Dec 2, 2010 09:32 PM
I have been enjoying listening to this telesummit and today Ann does a few healing sessions on the call and I would encourage you to listen and take advantage of this!

www.EnteringtheClarityZone.com

What is important to you?

How may I help?

love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KInesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Nov 18, 2010 10:47 PM
My daughter Elisha is nine and we like to keep each other informed as to how life is treating us each day, it has become such a habit that I now realize that she is not always letting everything out?

Whether that is because we have 60,000 thoughts a day or she just thinks that she has dealt with it when it happened?

As a Mom, I have come to realize that it is important to keep fishing, because eventually you catch something!

This week, it came out that this boy in her class, who is probably the most intelligent 'A' grade boy, has become a mastermind at bullying her. He does it so sneakily and cleverly, that she felt she would be the one to get in trouble for defending herself!

I do spend time in her class so I contacted her teacher and he is supporting her, although it is almost like in the workplace, where the incidents need to be documented, as it may just be her word against his?

To a certain extent, I am able to understand this, mean while, my daughter does not want to go to school because of the pressure of it? Although she is the one being bullied, the system protects the one doing the bullying?

I did tell her that if it became too much today, that I would go to the school. We have been doing role plays where she says "Stop that you're hurting me".

I do ask, why a nine year old boy puts so much intelligence and energy into bullying another class member? Is this where the evil adults come to learn their ways? This boy has known my daughter since she was 2yrs old. Or is he copying behavior from his parents?

There have been many times, in the past 6 years that my daughter has said, that I do not support her, she has wanted me to phone parents, when there have been issues with other children.

I have lovingly supported her emotionally and given her some tools to work with. I have made her aware that we do not receive phone calls from other parents about similar incidents. I told her that unfortunately, there may be times, in her life, when people may cross her path, with similar traits and that she would now know how to support herself.

I am so glad that I have supported her in a different way this time and I will forgive myself for the times that I have not supported her in the way that she wanted my support.

What is important to you?

How may I help you?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Nov 6, 2010 05:16 PM
Ladies today is the perfect time to be aware of your psychic power! Spend time today focusing on what really concerns you. Then take decisive action to change.

This is also a good time for regenerating your own energy. Make this a time of intensified passion and desire, be motivated and resourceful!

The moon has a strong influence on our emotions and it is important to be aware of this because awareness of the emotions that we are experiencing, particularly the negative ones, allows them to leave us. We then have room for those positive emotions to flood our body!

Feelings like how 'lucky' we are to have the eyes to see this post, the computer to use, the hands to type with and many other privileges in our life!!

What is important to you?

How may I help you?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KInesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Oct 23, 2010 08:47 PM
Hello Ladies
I thought this was interesting as Aries rules the head on our bodies so it you are feeling headstrong today that is why!

Here is a link to the post I did last month about an Aries full moon!

http://www.braveheartwomen.com/blog-entry/Emotionalintelligences-Blog/Moon-Aries/13000065637

It is important to recognize that we are triggered by this event and awareness heals!!

Have an awesome full moon day!

What is important to you right now?

How may I help?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Oct 5, 2010 10:58 AM
Thank you to all of you lovely ladies for your replies to my blog and my messages!

I look forward to connecting with those of you who are going, I know that we will have an awesome time!

I look forward to telling the lovely ladies who have not manifested RISE this year how it was for us!

Have a wonder filled day!

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Oct 1, 2010 11:03 AM
A year ago I wanted to be at RISE, at that time my enthusiasm was not supported by my vision!

I have much gratitude and appreciation for my life, now!

Today I celebrate the beginning of my other dreams, the tears, in my eyes confirm my commitment to change, I look forward, with anticipation to meeting as many BHW as time permits!

Please make a commitment to meet me at RISE, coming from Down Under, I would love to connect and collaborate!

I look forward to connecting with you?

What is important to you?

How may I assist you?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KInesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Sep 24, 2010 12:02 AM
Aries is "mars ruled" so it is a good time to work independently. It is a good time to do things that require physical exertion or mechanical skills. Other people can be more competitive than cooperative.

Although this moon may prompt you to bring in new ideas, the full moon is not the ideal time to start them. Without sufficient passion those ideas may wane, just as the moon will do. New ideas are for the New moon.

This time may bring about restlessness and watch for temper flare ups, notice that they are occurring and calm down. This can be a busy time so allow time to relax.

Be mindful of being the 'charging ram' if you feel like rushing ahead forcefully or impulsively, think about the consequences to yourself and others!

This moon can be 'selfish' and 'quick tempered'. Reign in the horse and then let it go. Contain the energy, not too emotional nor too intellectual!!


What is important to you?

How may I help?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Sep 22, 2010 07:21 PM
Let people know that you are 'interested' in them, their ideas, learning from them! Show them your concern, participate in things that they enjoy and engage them in conversation. By involving yourself and sharing in someone's life, you are being intimate and not only filling their 'love tank', you are assisting your own stomach, pancreas and spleen!

How does one get in touch with the feeling of 'saved'? Firstly, save a copy or you will loose it like I just did! Do not do the action in the first place i.e. sin. Be careful in order to reduce wear or to prevent the occurrence and stop ending your stories in misery, detach from the outcome, after all you did not die! Saved is up there with 'surreal' it is a feeling our heart and small intestine love to feel

How adventurous are you? What bold and daring enterprises do you participate in? What exciting speculations have you engaged in lately? Have you taken any chances recently? Become adventurous and let your body enjoy this feeling, travel a different route, visit a place you have not been to before or eat a different cuisine!

?'Calmness' not many of us take the time to just 'be'. I love to have time to think about what is happening now! Any sort of meditation is a great way to calm our mind, body and spirit. I practice holosync meditation each day! Sometimes I do another meditation as well. Allow some 'calm time' to come into your life. Our kidney and bladder love calmness!

Notice your emotions and thank your body for allowing you to notice, this will bring you closer to experiencing positive emotions and becoming emotionally intelligent!

What is important to you?

How may I help?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KInesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Sep 20, 2010 11:39 PM
The word 'trust' is there, what are the subtleties of it? Particularly in relation to God, other people or your partner? Are you willing to be vulnerable to the actions of another? Is it about competence, belief, benevolence or pure honesty? The hormone oxytocin, when applied, invokes trust, a wonderful hug can invoke oxytocin, as does breastfeeding and childbirth! Trusting in life is loved by your kidneys and bladder!

Trust in the flow of the universe, when we trust that it is all in divine order, this allows us to align with our intention and for the universe to provide! So align yourself with that feeling of confident expectation and hope, learn how to flood your body with trust!

Values - This has to be the topic now, do you give value and does it really come in the number of bonuses you offer? I would prefer to be highly regarded and esteemed for the value that I offer, in the service that I provide for my clients. Having said that, I appreciate their appraisal, on my merit, relative worth and importance in their lives?

‎'Unconditional' as an emotion seems to connect with love. It comes in the fire element, which is mastery and realization. It is absolute, unqualified and not limited by conditions! How does your love rate in this department? Do yourself a favor and check in with yourself? Are you putting conditions on your partner and your family when it comes to love! Awareness of this will keep your heart ticking happily!

When you are 'certain' you just know absolutely. You are free from doubt, confident and sure. This is a feeling that our body loves, so become aware of this and really feel this certainty flood your body, especially for those organs in the metal element - the skin, colon, valves and lungs which enjoy this feeling!

Getting in touch with and feeling the emotions in your body will also bring into your awareness when you are feeling negative emotions, which are the ones that do the damage to our organs! By becoming emotionally intelligent you are doing your body a very big favor!!


What is important to you?

How may I help?

Love from Down Under
Karen
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
Posted Sep 11, 2010 05:12 AM
I am in my fifth year of using holosync meditation! I had meditated prior to this and once I heard about holosync meditation, it resonated with me and I was eager to start!

While the ocean sounds are very natural and pleasant to meditate to, it is the subliminal sound waves that do most of the work!

The system is set up to create a new system, it is brilliant in itself, as it copies nature. Every day flowers bloom, leaves change color, squirrels prepare for winter and bears hibernate!

Change is good, as are new systems! Just like our cars need new parts to keep going, holosync gives us some new parts to improve our performance!

The subliminal waves in holosync, e.g. alpha, beta, theta and delta put us in a different state of mind, which then assists us in our lives to be in touch with our mood, be that creative or work mode or parenting mode!

What holosync meditation also does, is create entropy, which is chaos!

When there is chaos, something changes to deal with that chaos! That means that you change yourself to deal with that chaos!

They have a wonderful support team to assist you to deal with this! I personally have not felt the need to use their support team, as I do emotional healing work and I am well connected with the emotions that I am experiencing each time I change my holosync meditation cd!

I have met several people who did not use the support team or other methods and they quit on holosync!

Many negative emotions do rear their ugly heads using this process, it is up to us to face those negative emotions and move through them with ease and grace, rather than rebury them or cover them up!

I would recommend it to those of you Brave Heart Women who are brave enough to let go of those negative emotions, deal with them, one emotion at a time and free your body from their slavery!

Become a vessel of love, joy and happiness, which will add to your health and bring in prosperity in all areas of your life!

You are most welcome to connect to discuss holosync!

What is important to you?

How my I help you?

Love from Down under
Karen
http://www.KinesiologyWithKaren.com
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