shanik27's Blog

Dear BraveHeart Women,

I want to know do you just ever say well
I am going to enjoy myself today and just
let my hair down and have some fun. I
am going to make the best of this day and
do whatever my heart desires? Or is it
you still have to ponder the question as to
what if what my heart desires is really not
good for me or my family? Have you ever
consider that question? Sometimes it is
good to do what make you happy, but be
sure it is in the right modem. Make for certain
that it curtails everything that is in the bounds
of what right and fitting to you as a parent, a
mate, a daughter, etc. because what you do
now can surely come back to haunt you later.
Make wise and careful decisions when planning
good wholesome fun for yourself. You can
just take time out and go swimming, go bowling,
go out to a fun-dance with your husband or
male friend. Plan a party just for the 2 of you with
a bottle of champagne or wine and have your
favorite food right there at home and just sit back
put on some romantic music that reminds you
and he of the first time you met or the special
times you both spent together, also do a little
dance and please donot forget to talk about the
good ole days, when you first met. etc. this could be good therapy
for your relationship. Also plan a romantic
get away cruise to the Bahamas, and just
have the time of your life. It wouldnt be such
a bad idea if the 2 of you take a yoga
exercise class together. or play some
volleyball or tennis to get hyped up
and just have fun. Another great
way to have fun is to go horse-back riding,
and enjoy the scenery. or either go
to a state where there is still carriage
riding for romantic couples, this sounds
like fun. All of these things can add
so much joy and contentment to a
marriage or a relationhship
because it is helping to bring the couple more
closer together and helping them to forget about
some of life's eveyday problems. Also try renting
out a cabin for a weekend for the 2 of you to
refurbish your romantic relationship with no
disturbance from anyone, this will give the both
of you time to sort out some of your differences
and help to mend your relationship back again
to a moe loving, caring relationship. Communication
is the key to a lasting relationship. If neither one
of you never express what you do or donot like
in each other ways, the problem will continue to
grow bigger and bigger. Talk, talk, talk to each
other. find out what's bothering your better half.
I have tried some of these techniques myself
and truly believe me, they work! It help mend
my relationship a lots. BraveHeart Women
this is just something I thought I would share
with those of you who havent already done these
things, but to those of you who have more power
to you! and keep on enjoying your mate and
your life, Have clean fun!.

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Edited by shanik27 at 06/27/2009 12:25 AM CDT

To All The BraveHeartWomen,
I would like to share some very
inspirational things with you all.
The way in which the economy and life
is now adays it is a wonder anyone is
able to stay cool. There are times when
we all feel like we are sinking sand, that
is the time we have to pick up our crosses
and stand! Dont go around pouting, fussing,
or fighting, just look to the hills and be
patience, because the darkest hour is
just before day. Things will change for
the better not the worse. We all have to
go though the storm in order to enter into the
light. The more life seems to be getting
the best of you, that is when you must trust
in God to carry you through! dont be afraid,
dont give up just know that God is watching
over us and he will take care of you. He
knows what we need and want even before
we ask.. There will be days when it might seemed
like nothing is going right, just look unto the
hills and he will truly guide you to the light. The
battle isnt ours, but it is his. God knows just
how much we can stand. Therefore, put your
hand in the hand of God and go on, dont stop
have faith and everything will work out just right,
Believe and know at all times that God is there
for you, and Loves you, he will take care of you
and will most certain take you through. Keep
you mind in tact, love, love, love like you never
have before and just see what miracles will
come into your life sponstaneously. The more
you give, the more God will give to you.

Hi BraveHeart Women,
this is dedicated to all of us who
have expierence a "Great relationship
with our Savior". This is a poem that
will uplift our spirits and hope everyone
who reads it enjoy it.

I Had A GalA AFFAIR TODAY

I had a gala affair today, everything went
my way. I felt so good inside, I had a gala
affair today!. I didnt have to fuss or fight
because everything I did was alright. I had
a gala affair today! Today I must confess, my
life was a mess but I was with the best. I had
a gala affair today! Tthe affair that I had I wanted
it to last. The Gala-Affair I had today was
pleasant in every way. It was "JESUS "who I had
the affair with. He helped me to find my way,
and I had such a great day. I held his
his hand and he led the way to help me
have a gala affair today!

"Have A Great Day Everyone!

Hi BraveHeart Women,

I hope when you read this memo that
it finds All of You in the best of health and
doing great! I want to dedicate this to all
of you who have mates and lovers. This
is a poem I hope you All enjoy.

"Live To Give

Each day I awake, I feel so brand new, knowing
there is something for me to do. I love to see
the smile on your face, it reflects your love and
your grace. You live to give so much love, the
kind of love I am dreaming of. A love that is
oh so true! the kind of love that makes me
feel brand new!

May God Bless All Of Your Loved Ones!

Hi BraveHeart Women,

This is a topic that I would love to discuss
with each of you.

I had several occasions
whereas I wished I have listened more instead
of just blurting out my opinion right then and
there, to realize that it wasn't such a good
idea for me to have done this. If I had just
taken the time to listen carefully to what the
person was trying to discuss with me I could
have gotten a much better perspective of what
that individual was trying to relate to me,
instead of voicing my opinion which was the
wrong one.

I interpreted it one way when really
it was meant to mean something other than
the decision I immediately made. I thought
I knew it and had it down packed, when really
I didn't and I was truly embarrassed!

This was a good lesson for me to learn.
When the person later explained to me what
was truly going on I got a different definition
ll the way around.

It was strange at first, but from his point of view
it made sense to me. So I have learned to view
things from more than one point of view because
things can be seemed from many different angles,
and view points, one opinion is not all that matters.

We must learn to rationalize, analyze, and decide
what is the best way in which to accept the point of view.
I am so glad that I have learned to do this.
It made a difference in my life, to realize that I
am not always right, I can be wrong and being
able to accept the fact that I was wrong means
a lot to me.

This is just something I thought
I would share with each of you.
May God Bless You All.

Hi BraveHeart Women,

This is something I dedicate to each
and every one of us. I hope and pray
we all get something out of this. It is
meant to inspire and uplift and to bring
us all to the full reality of how life is and
that it is what it is to all of us individually.
We all have our own unique way in which
something affects us. Some can look and
respond to a situation differently than others.
so this poem is called "carry On"
"Carry On"
No matter what you are going thorough,
dont let life get the best of you. Take up
your grear and put it on, live life, be tough
and strong, "just carry on:.
Yes, carry on, live life
to it's fullest and nothing less,
then God will truly take care of the rest
and you will most certainly be blessed.

Hi BraveHeart Women,

This is a subject which is very special
to me, and I feel as though we all should
just sit still for awhile and think about it.

One way or another we all have made a
true difference in this world. Some of us
have made people happy, some of us have
made people sad, some love to give and
share and some of others just dont care.

Whatever attitude or behavior we have
obtained it left something on someone
mind to lose or to gain. The things we
do and say each day can help a child or
a person find the way or go astray.

So whatever you have said or done remember
it can bring happiness or ruin. This is why
I ask this question, Are You Making A True
Difference In The World.

If We are to bring a true difference in this World,
let's all bring some real joy and love to enlightened
someone World.
"Have A Great Day All BraveHeart Women,
Keep The Good Works Up!

Hi BraveHeart Women,

This is something we should all think
about as a woman. The least we can
do is to be honest with yourselves and
make sure we are living the life style
we feel happy about. There are times
when I am not even happy with the
lifesyle I am living, but I know that in order
for me to get to the place in life where I
should be as an individual here on this
earth, I must admit to myself that I might
not be doing what God created me to do.
We must ask ourselves, am I just doing or
being this person to please someone else
or to make someone else happy or to bring
about someone else's dream? How long
can I pretend to be this person deep down
inside I know I dont want to be and can never
be satisfied being someone else.
when will the inner-spirit come forth and take
your mind, body, spirit and soul to the deepest
and most profound expierence on earth to
make you fianlly one-day wake up and realize
that this is not the journey you are suppose to
take. There are those of us who have chosen
careers out of necessity things like for a better-
life-style, to have more money, more luxries in
life and to be able to do more of what we feel
we want to do but never really getting the
gratification and reaching the higher peak that
we so often crave, we get the education and
the jobs, but are we really satisfied and happy
about the choices we have made? Some of us
really are happy and satisfied with our choices
and have found that profound joy and some
peace within our inner-selves, but to those of
us who know deep-down inside this is not
where you suppose to be or it is something
you really are not just happy doing, it is time now
to do some soul-searching so that you can
enjoy the life and time on this earth doing
what you are purpose to do, no matter how small
a task it might seemed, it it fits your true spirit
then that is what you are here to do. Think about
this and let me know your true feeling about
your inner-self.

Hello BraveHeart Women,

This is a question that has been pondering
my mind for quite sometime now. I have
often encounter situations where there really
are parents who are making a difference
in their children, now Not All parents are
doing this, this is only for those who are and
it is definitely wrong. I feel this is another form
of child abuse that is not often discussed.
There has been several occassions where
I have heard from individuals myself tell me
that their parents made a difference in their
siblings. Why is it if a child favors or have more
characteristics of the parent that child seemed
to get more attention, or if the child is really
intelligent or smarter than the others he or she
wins the heart of the parent, and causes the
other children to feel bad or that they are not
good enough for their parents? This is an awful
thing to do to a child. A mother carries her baby
for 9 months and I feel each child a mother
has should have her love and attention no matter
how he or she looks, or whatever. God has blessed
you to bring this wonderful human being into the
world, who knows what this child can or might
grow up to become? The child might not ever be
able to reach his or her full potention if she or he
is always being put down, ridiculed, or toss aside.
Give All your children the opportunity to become
the man or woman God created them to be. This
will help our society in so many ways. The child
who feels abused most often turn to drugs, alcohol, become more sexually active, and get involved
with the wrong crowd seeking for love in all the
wrong places and end up in trouble majority of
the time. There are some rare occassion though
where the neglected or abuse child ends up
being successful and a value to society and himself. So BraveHeart Women lets take a part in helping
our Children become strong, healthy , intelligent
, loving individuals that God meant for them to
be by showing nothing but Love to them All.

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Edited by shanik27 at 06/04/2009 6:04 PM CDT

Parents have a big responsibility when it
comes to showing love for their children.
We as parents sometimes take for granted
that our children automatically knows that we
love them because we are providing for them
giving them shelter, food, clothing, and
sometimes other luxuries as well such as
money, etc. But this is the thing, I have been
around Children who tell me that they are not
happy because the parent donot give them
their time and just talk to them. ask them
questions like how are you feeling, is
everything alright, how was you day today,
did you enjoy school, or work, whatever the
child is doing. A child need lots of love and
attention from both parents even though parents
hardly ever have time because of their busy
schedules, getting up going to work, sometime
even work late hours, coming home not eating
with the family, buying food already prepared and
everyone eating at different times, children sometimes dont even get the opportunity to
talk with the parent, because of all this chaos
that surrounds them. Parents please dont forget
and dont take for granted that your child is always
happy, because he or she may not always be.
Always hug your child, kiss your child, tell your
child you love them before sending them off to
school, work, or wherever. Take time to have
conversations, heart to heart conversations with
your child to find out what is going on in their minds.
Find out what they are thinking about, is there something troubling them, offer your support and
guidance. Donot let your child have to go to a
friend or peer and tell them things they cant talk
to you or tell you about. We as BraveHeart Women
must take back the control of our Children, for they
are our next and future generation, the things we teach and train them, they will pass it on to their children.We are their role models, we are who they live with, so they develop most of their characteristics from parent. whether it is good or bad. There are some things that we cannot do in front of our children, that is cursing.
fussing, fighting, druging, etc. We as BraveHeartWomen will carry the struggle through
and be Strong, Loving, and God-Fearing Women
so we can make A BIg DIfference in our child's life.
The rest is up to All BraveHeartWomen, Mold and
help Shape your Children characters so they can
become Successful Men and Women.

No matter what you are going through, trust
in God to see you through. The day might
seemed dark and the nite might be long,
but dont give up keep holding on.
Think of all the things God has done for
you, he will help and carry you through. Dont
let the hard-aches and burdens of this
world get next to you, making you feel
lonely, sad, and blue.

Gather your thoughts and hold on tight,
God is your pilot and he will guide you to
the light, and he will most certainly make
everything allright. God will help see you
through because he loves and cares for you!