Welcome to Gay spouse - finding yourself again

This is for you who never knew that your spouse, partner was in the closet. You always thought that there was something wrong with you. Maybe I'm not beautiful enough, maybe I'm not sexy enough, maybe I should dress differently, maybe a boob job will do it, maybe you have also read 101 ways to seduce a man in bed, maybe you read books like "The language of Sex" and the list can go on and on and on. You are not alone. We are part of a growing community of women asking the same questions, crying over the same issues and wonder about the same things. I would love you to share with us how you are coping or not. Let’s share, learn and support each other. There is hope!