Aloha Margaret, Your photo brings a flood of sweet memories to my heart. I was able to be caretaker to my wonderful mother in her last year, and it was the most richly exhausting experience of my entire life. *breath* Enjoy! When the load becomes weighty - and it will - know that you are doing the very best thing anyone can do for another human being, and that you will always cherish what you share in these days. Love and admiration, Linda Carol Berry www.BraveHeartLinda.com