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a better person 4 my mentor

a better person 4 my mentor

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I have a mentor that I have not like for a long time. My mentors should have been the one I looked up to but for the longest time I can rememeber just being up-set with her. One topic at a time I lost my mother a long time ago. This mentor wanted me to call her mom and not by her first name. a child doest call adults by there first name. but this mentor has such a nice name you would have to ask again if that is really your name. so i wanted and still dont want to call her mother, mom. just very nasty names that has nothing to do with the Person or the Kind of person she is. I cant believe, I have been so hard on myself that I feel I cant trust anybody, mentors and not. I am hurting everyday that I have not come to my sense that she has gone on with her life and now I can stop hurting. she now has grandchildren I will never meet and parties I wont get to attend. if this isnt the best story u every heard? I hurt Everyday
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by ejohnson
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Re: a better person 4 my mentor
Jun 3, 2010 11:43 PM
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It sounds like you are having an issue with forgiveness. What I suggest that you do is write a letter to your mentor. Even if you don't send it to her write it and pour your heart into the letter. After you are finish writing the letter burn it. While burning it say I am releasing all negative energy and unforgiveness from my life. Next, write yourself a letter and tell yourself how you feel and how you forgive yourself and that you give yourself permission to love and live pain free. Once you have finished writing your letter, repeat the process that you did with the first letter. Tell me how you feel after this.

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arlancek
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Jun 2, 2010 02:13 AM
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i'm sorry to hear that
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a better person 4 my mentor
May 31, 2010 09:46 PM
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I have a mentor that I have not like for a long time. My mentors should have been the one I looked up to but for the longest time I can rememeber just being up-set with her. One topic at a time I lost my mother a long time ago. This mentor wanted me to call her mom and not by her first name. a child doest call adults by there first name. but this mentor has such a nice name you would have to ask again if that is really your name. so i wanted and still dont want to call her mother, mom. just very nasty names that has nothing to do with the Person or the Kind of person she is. I cant believe, I have been so hard on myself that I feel I cant trust anybody, mentors and not. I am hurting everyday that I have not come to my sense that she has gone on with her life and now I can stop hurting. she now has grandchildren I will never meet and parties I wont get to attend. if this isnt the best story u every heard? I hurt Everyday
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