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What DO I Really Want to Do?

What DO I Really Want to Do?

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WOW…good question. What IS it that I want to do? What IS it that is my dream?

Well, I know..do I dare say it? Do I dare voice it??

I was put on this planet to be a motivator, an inspirationalist, a giver of hope to those that see only darkness.

Now the only question that remains is HOW. How do I give this gift that I was blessed with to the greatest amount of people?

I have been doing it on a one to one basis with everyone that I have come in contact with. However, something is calling me to go out and reach a larger amount of people. I don’t have a clue how…but I will continue listening until I receive an answer.

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Feb 17, 2010 11:21 AM
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I want it to be against the law, to rape women in the workplace, in America.

Thousands and thousands of women are being sexually abused in the workplace each year.

After being raped by the boss, you have an option.

Quit your job.

Then, you can spend years, and every last dollar you have , trying to convince the government that it is against the law to rape women in the workplace.

Report that to the EEOC , and YOU will be "under investigation" for years, or as long as it takes, until YOU are unemployable.

You have no idea how bad it is, UNTIL it happens to you.

After five years of this, the guy is still in business, after raping more than a dozen women, in public, in the workplace...

I think he belongs in prison, same as if he raped women at Wal-Mart

Why does workplace rape work differently than rape in any other public place?

Why should a woman have to leave her job?

When the boss is raping the office help, he should go to prison.

Don't you think so too?

This is America, and IT IS our courts, our federal govenment that is allowing the corporations to rape women.

Worse, they cover up the rapes, VAWA

It is the Obama-Biden agenda, to allow rape
and hide the rapes under this VAWA "case file sealing" "evidence sealing" , more, much more..

It is a very complicated system,,,,
to cover up rape, allow rape..... and abuse the raped women,,,

for the corporations

gone to far that one..... raping women in the workplace.


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Feb 17, 2010 10:46 AM
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What DO I really want to do?

Is that like “What do I want to be when I grow up?”

I’m 50 and still have not figured that one out. My goal as a young girl, and then a woman was to be a wife and mother. Not just any wife and mother, but the best dang wife and mother anyone could wish for.

Of course, I’m human so I can’t say that ever really happened. But the goal was a lofty one and one I worked very hard at.

What DO I want to do? Hmmmm, I want to write. Working toward that now that I have some time for me. Here’s to a new direction!

The Duchess O'Blunt (aka Brenda)
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Your response had me checking out your profile. I love what you are doing with the on line radio show. Keep up the great work.
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I thought I know the answer to this question long time ago, but it has changed. My family has been affected by diabetes. So far there's no cure for Type 1 diabetes.

 

My purpose now is devoted to writing articles about new technological discovery, latest research work, natural means, alternative to drugs and eventually a cure of diabetes.

 

I have a website where individual who are affected by this disease can find information that may help them manage their diabetes.

 

Alma

www.diabetestomorrow.com

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Jan 17, 2010 09:19 PM
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Hello my BraveHeart Sisters

Do you know how many times II thought I knew what I really wanted to do? I can count them on all my fingers and toes, but for some reason that was not the case.

I have worked on many different things, but it was only a wish there was no passion.

I am still in the process of figuring out who Linda Baccus really is,

It is great to have Braveheart sisters. I am a Founding Member, so I have been around the block and back.

Keep in touch

Happy New Year

Hugs

Linda Baccus
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Dear Faemara,

Just like you I was also stuck in a cycle...it was a cycle of abuse. I am now free and I just want to reach out to you and tell you that you can do it, and if you need to talk I am here

God bless you

Navin
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Yes, good question.

I left an abusive relationship in 2004, and now, as a single mom, I finally feel confident and ready to contribute to the world....but how? I am itching to do something for the world....I want to give back.

I want to help people who lack the confidence and self-esteem to stand in their own true power. I wonder how to do that. Bringing women together and holding self-esteem workshops has occured to me. My head gets in the way here...there are so many workshops on this...where and how do I fit in?

Not 100% sure what vehicle to use, not totally clear yet. I have a computer background, which no longer interests my soul, but I can certainly use the skills for presentations.

I ask God to show me the way. I know I will receive my answer...I think God is teaching me patience. I am so eager to find that true passion, because once I do, I will take off like a rocket. Right now, I am just sitting waiting for an answer, and this waiting is challenging.

Currently I run a Before and After school care, but it is draining me, I am ready to give this up for my passion. God please tell me how do I do this?
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I have never post here before I don't think.I just feel it is important that I do. I was move by your post here.I too am trying to find my passion.After my lost.I have taken care of people,In alot of areas you just name it.I just realize I was trying to fill avoid. I'am trying out another adventure one of several. Which I no is a blessing to me.I just have to learn some marketing skills.I want my children to be proud of me.Pay for there college.And for me to go back to school for Business.I want so much but It will be along struggle,Back in the day I lost myself.I did not take care of myself.I lost a few teeth,gain weight,low selfesteem,But ready to take it on whatever it is.I will breakout of this cycle.I let my abuser keep me in prison mentaly. But this year I'am determined to make a change, and would love anyone who would love to support me,I will do the same.
God Bless You And Yours In All You Do!
faemara

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I have been on a journey since 1994 in completing a music degree. That is my natural gift. When I was choosing a career as a nineteen year old, the safer choice of RN initially won out. By 1993, that choice was costing me physically, emotionally, and spiritually at a great expense. Many doors and windows opened in job opportunities throughout the years for making income in music.

In 2006, my husband was unemployed in summers, but was finding sub teaching jobs during the year. It coincided with me also being out of work, and that is when I returned to nursing in full force in addition to a church musician post. I have been gradually reducing my hours in nursing because I have one year left to finish my masters of music in choral conducting.

I am now on leave from my nursing job, so that I can prepare for my comprehensive exams next month. I find the time delay is not working in my favor regarding memory and retention. I have been
in doubt, fear, uncertainty; nevertheless, I scheduled the exams, and now know each next step towards the goal must be met.

I have found different resources to move myself forward. Some of my resources are the video 'the Secret"; Bob Doyle's "Law of Attraction"; EFT or emotional freedom techniques; Bill Harris' "Centerpointe.com"; "The goals guy"; Dr Neil Fiore's "Mental Toughness" by Hypnosis Network, and others. All of these have been useful to get me mobilized and not stay stuck.

I see both nursing and music as ministries. It's just that one takes more out of me while the other gives me energy. However, studying and preparation is not always enjoyable, and I have to remember why this goal is so vital, because it allows me a voice, a recognition and membership, and a gamut of opportunities. Thanks for this forum. It is vital to share in each other's success, and it is vital to be successful for other's inspiration. Blessings*


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Debsta, your story was so inspiring! I too believe in the Law of Attraction and I am working towards my goals both physically and consciously thinking about my dreams. Congratulations on your band and all the good that you do!


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My name is Debbie, and I am from Perth WA. This is my story.
A few years ago I, like thousands of others watched a movie that changed my life called ‘The Secret’.
After watching this fantastic movie I became intrigued and very interested in the way the mind works, and How I could better my life and the life of my family.
I began to research all of the teachers featured in ‘The Secret’ and began to learn things about myself that I never knew. One of the biggest obstacles for me in the whole process was answering the question: “what do you really want?’ Like many others I thought I knew, but in fact had no Idea.
This prompted me to really look within and find out. I knew that I would have to do some
Work, and clear out any old beliefs and any past junk that I had inside, so I went to work on myself.

A few weeks ago I saw a movie called ‘The Opus’…….this is when things got really interesting. “The Opus’ is basically a movie talking about your passion or purpose in life.
For me, I always thought being a Mum was what I was here to do, but I very quickly realized
That being a mum is only a part of my purpose, and there was still something missing.
After much soul searching, I finally came to realize the one thing I had always loved was in fact what I
Am here to do…….Music. It’s always been music, and I’ve always know that deep down but could
Never admit to it due to fear.

Well, I have finally decided to follow my dreams, my passion and what I believe is my purpose.
For as long as I can remember I have always loved to sing. Somewhere along the way I lost that love.
Instead I came up with excuses why singing wasn't for me. I was teased and bullied all through my school life so never pursued my love of singing for fear of not being good enough, people laughing at me, teasing me etc etc.
Well, I'm now 34 yrs old and a mum to a beautiful 6yr old boy with special needs.
He is my inspiration and one of the main reasons I made the decision to face my fears and just do it!!!!
I want to be an example for him, and show him that anything is possible, and that he can do anything.
So I'm doing it, and doing it the best way possible.
I had once asked the universe/my subconscious ‘How can I serve?, how can I give back? I knew music was what I wanted to do,
But I also wanted to be able to give back somehow, do something to help others, that’s when my dear friend Tanya asked me if I would be interested in joining the band she was involved with, and once I realized what they were all About, I knew that this was meant to be.
This is not only my success story but my new friend/drummer/manager Lisa's story too.

After losing her 2 year old son to cancer in 2001 Lisa went on a downhill spiral of self destruction
and didn’t know how to climb back out. After struggling for a long time, she managed to get back on top, step by step.
She kept thinking about what she could do to help others, as she knew this would make her feel good.
After waking up one night, she realized that she had now had the same dream 3 times in a row!!!
That’s it! - she thought, I am going to follow this dream.
In her dream she was on stage saying – *Thank you to everyone for coming tonight and helping raise these much needed funds*

Now, let’s face it who doesn’t want to be a rock star....Lisa had always wanted to play drums but never had the chance to do it.
So she decided to find some other mums to form a band with and........ in 2007 MUTHAZ was born.
Three of our members never knew how to play instruments 18 months ago. We are all self taught and now have 14 original songs
and have a few covers up our sleeve. We are now a band that performs to raise money..all our profits go to charity.

Our first big Fundraiser was for the PMH FOUNDATION ( Princess Margaret Children’s Hospital, Perth WA) We raised over $13,000 dollars!!
Lisa's dream came true, at the end of the night she was up on stage thanking everyone for being a part of the night.
And me, well I was simply in awe! Watching Lisa realize her dream, and seeing for myself that the Law of Attraction
and the power of the mind is very real. Lisa has become an inspiration to me, an example of what it’s all about.
I also realized that my dream had come true too!! I still sit back and think, wow this is really happening.
It feels so good to finally be doing what I love to do, and be giving back at the same time.

MUTHAZ are being sponsored to tour Australia, Tasmania & New Zealand next year 2010 to raise money for each cities children’s hospital!!
We are on the lookout for some big bands to join us!!!
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As others have said before, I really want to achieve personal financial freedom so I can live closer to my sister, help the most people I can and, of course, help me realize one of my dreams and goals. Good luck to all!


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Aug 22, 2009 10:54 PM
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My dream is to use my creativity to share with others in my writing and my photography. It is also to support others in my coaching so that they can come through the transitions in their lives and get in touch with their own flow. I also want to be of service because I have been blessed in my own life.


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What I really want to do is live from my deeper heart, soul, & spirit daily.

Along with this, I would like to offer what I can with my dedication for helping others live their positive dreams & highest potential for their happiness & success.

(Also how wonderful it is that we have this place called BHW to meet, share, and be a support for one another!)

with blessings*,
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What I really want to do is live from my deeper heart, soul, & spirit daily.

Along with this, I would like to offer what I can with my dedication for helping others live their positive dreams & highest potential for their happiness & success.

(Also how wonderful it is that we have this place called BHW to meet, share, and be a support for one another!)

with blessings*,
whitelotus
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What I really want to do now is to make enough money so I can afford to buy a house with enough rooms/space for my family (my mom and my two sons) to live under one roof after more than 15 years living apart.

This is my next goal... and I plan to reach it by June of 2010.

I CAN DO IT!

Juliet Lac
http://www.pariswoman.com
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