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Men Make me Weak

Men Make me Weak

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I'm 35 and I've never been in a relationship that lasted for more than one year, and even that has only happened twice.
Some where along the line I got it into my head that strong woman remain alone in order to remain strong, in order to accomplish something more than the laundry.
By myself, I feel I can accomplish anything. With a man by my side, I feel I am just half a human. I become overwhelmed and controlled by fear, jealousy, insecurities, and self-consciousness and from within me comes a terribly powerful voice and negative voice. Next to a man, I become the complete opposite of what I am alone.
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Re: Men Make me Weak
Nov 25, 2011 11:09 PM
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I am with you sista! I have spent countless years emersed within cultural/religious doctirne/dogma only to re-experience MAN as the weaker species. And by that, I mean that competition and "outdated" emotional connections will try to lower our vibration to that of tending to a spoiled 3 year-old-child. Get ready ladies.....we have a huge task at hand!
Watching the "Borgia" really solidifies what I already know to be true. We need to raise the bar on HAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Oxy-tocin can be experienced by men.....it's just that you've got to have a turtle-shell......or be aware enough to know that men have not been disciplined in the fine art of collaboration! They have resonance that cannot reach their cores for it has not been necessary to purge useless tactics and mindsets! I demand higher resonance....and when I don't get it, I stay committed to my path! Negative reinforcement never worked for me....Jealousy----was just another:
"Ehhh, Congradulations," in my family,(taught to me by my father). Anger: (which Dad never conquered) was just the inability to ask the right questions to recieve the honest answer that awakened the Core!
Women raise children.......not pity-parties.Pity parties include: guilt, shame, blame, envy, jealousy and embarrassment(which are adrenaline based), and someone has to recieve and someone has to transfer......Transference is the inability of someone to own their own "adrenaline junkie" behaviour.
Bliss You! Stay true to your Core Belief.....and that will, in time attract one that can HAHHHHHH, with you!


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The opposite of creation is pity. And knowing the difference is Soul-Full!
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From:Ravenna, Ohio
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Re: Men Make me Weak
Nov 22, 2011 06:47 AM
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YOU CAN HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP AND STILL FEEL POWERFUL. YOU JUST NEED TO FIND A MAN THAT HAS THE SAME GOALS IN LIFE THAT YOU DO. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND WE WORK TOGETHER AND WE HAVE THE SAME GOALS AND BECAUSE OF THAT, THERE IS NO FEAR, INSECURITIES, ETC. I TO HAD TO GET OVER ALL OF THOSE AND WHAT HELPED ME WAS READING 3 DIFFERENT BOOKS AND LIVING BY THEM. THEY ARE THE SECRET AND THE POWER BY RHONDA BYRNE AND THE OTHER ONE IS FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAYS BY SUSAN JEFFERS. THOSE 3 BOOKS GOT ME PAST MY JEALOUSY, INSECUITIES AND FEAR. MY LIFE IS GREAT NOW AND YOURS WILL BE ALSO. YOU ALSO NEED TO KEEP AS MANY POSITIVE THOUGHTS IN YOUR HEAD AT ALL TIMES. I HOPE THIS HELPS. DON'T LET A MAN CHANGE YOU EITHER. BE WHO YOU ARE AND IF THEY CAN'T ACCEPT IT, THEN THEY ARE NOT THE ONE!!!
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Nov 21, 2011 11:44 PM
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Hi, I completely understand what you mean. And with men these days, cooking, sex and cleaning seem to be all that they want from a woman. Being single, you're so free to live your life, and do what you want, but being in a relationship has so many rules to it, sometimes I just want to never get into one.
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Men Make me Weak
Nov 4, 2011 12:26 PM
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I'm 35 and I've never been in a relationship that lasted for more than one year, and even that has only happened twice.
Some where along the line I got it into my head that strong woman remain alone in order to remain strong, in order to accomplish something more than the laundry.
By myself, I feel I can accomplish anything. With a man by my side, I feel I am just half a human. I become overwhelmed and controlled by fear, jealousy, insecurities, and self-consciousness and from within me comes a terribly powerful voice and negative voice. Next to a man, I become the complete opposite of what I am alone.
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